Friday, May 9, 2014

Pregnant women and experienced moms.....?




niks


I am due after 3 months . Need to start baby shopping with a limited budget. Could you tell me the list of things which are very essential like stroller and car seat etc and wat to look for in all the things. Also we are thinking of that playyard thing instead of buying a crib does that work? any disadvantges of that?


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I personally would never buy a play yard over a crib completely. The infant/early toddler years are the formative years for their bone structure, including their back. The mattress pads provided with most play yards does not give adequate support for a growing newborn over an extended period of time. I would put the money forth and purchase a regular crib with a supportive mattress before buying a play yard exclusively. If you were to only use the play yard for naps or something, that would be okay but as a regular sleeping surface, it seems inadequate. I always liked to have a bassinet for the first couple of months so that I could keep my babies close to me during the night. But after that I always moved them to a supportive crib with a regular mattress.

Other necessites include...., like you mentioned, a carseat (buy the best you can afford, look for a 5-point harness and register it so that you are notified of recalls or product safety announcements).

A stroller is nice too... If you can afford it, it's nice to have the infant seat kind that hooks into the stroller. They are often sold as "travel systems" so that you have the infant carseat and the stroller together. Keep in mind that most infant seats only hold a baby up until 20-25 pounds and a certain height so you'll unquestionably need to upgrade at some point. Another option is to *not* buy the travel system and just buy a stroller and a seperate "combination seat" that holds a baby often from around 5lbs and up to 40 or even 65 on some! This way you won't have to buy a new carseat until much later.

A full-sized high chair isn't needed at all if you buy one of those that just attaches to an existing kitchen chair. But you won't need even one of those for the first 4 months at least so you can save your money there.

Don't go overboard in buying clothes, especially of the newborn-3 month sizes! They outgrow them so fast, you really only need a few onesies, a couple sleeping gowns and some simply sleep n' play type outfits.

Diapers, diapers, diapers. If you are having a shower, don't buy too many newborn size diapers until you see what you're going to get. They outgrow even the newborn diapers pretty fast and most are able to start wearing the size 1's pretty quickly. But you'll definitely need them!

Wipes.... It's good to have a nice supply going... but you can also make your own at much less cost. Do a Google search for "homemade baby wipes" and you'll get lots of results. What you don't need is a wipe warmer.... baby's get used to the cool wipes very quickly. In the beginning you can just warm the wipe in your hand if you are concerned.

The nice things about babies is that they really don't "require" much. It's nice to have certain things... but their requirements are really just love, diapers/wipes, a few outfits and milk (whether from the breast or formula). Again, if you have a baby shower you'll get a lot of the basics there: pacifiers, blankets, toys, baby book, bottles.... Always a good idea to hold off on buying a lot of that type stuff yourself if you are having a shower!

That's all I can think of for now.... Oh, and don't buy a Diaper Genie/diaper disposal system.... waste of money in my opinion!! :) Trash can with lid works just fine!

Best of luck to you!




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traveling with babies?




virgowicca


im traveling to ca from ak with a 2 yr old and 8month old. any helplful advice would be great. dont say not to travel with children. thank you
btw im flying



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I used to live in Alaska and would visit my family in California fairly regularly, so I know what you're going through! Let me see what I can remember of the ordeal... ;-)

First thing: make sure they have something to suck on (pacifier, bottle, juice box, whatever) to help them equalize the pressure in their ears during takeoff -- otherwise it can be extremely painful for the little ones!

For my son, we always had a special set of "travel toys" -- something small and easily portable (Matchbox cars, little Fisher-Price "peg people", etc.) that he only got to play with on trips, so they would be new and interesting and would take him longer to get bored with. Storybooks are always good, as are coloring books. if you own or can rent a portable DVD player with maybe a Disney movie or something on it, those things can be worth their weight in gold!

Make sure you bring snacks as well -- airline food rots, and it's not likely to be anything they'll like, anyhow. Bring finger foods that they like and that are easy to cleanup and transport -- raisin boxes, plastic baggies with goldfish crackers, grapes, Fig Newtons, etc.

Try to travel in the evening, so they can sleep for at least part of the flight.

While you're waiting for the flight to arrive, run 'em ragged -- play games, run around, explore the airport and watch the airplanes taking off and landing -- do everything you can to tire them out so they'll sit still during the flight.

Once they sit down in their seat on the plane, make sure they STAY seated -- if they get it into their heads that they can run up and down the aisle, it'll be a constant battle to keep them in their seats.

Make sure that they also have their favorite "snuggly" -- a security blanket, stuffed animal, etc. -- as well, to help induce sleepiness. It can also give them something to focus on, making sure that "Teddy" gets buckled in along with the child, and so on...

I sincerely hope you'll be travelling with your spouse/partner.....my wife and I thought we were being heroic dealing with just ONE toddler between the two of us!

Just remember: no matter how rough the trip gets, you WILL survive the experience! Best of luck to you!

Best way to travel with baby cross country via car?




rollalmt


Our family is moving 950 miles (a 14 hour drive) cross country. We will be driving our car with the baby in the back seat. My husband thinks it's a good idea to give our baby some sort of medicine to make the baby drowsy so that we don't have a screaming baby for 14 hours, I don't think this is a good idea. Has anyone else been in this situation or have any suggestions as to what to do to keep baby happy and make as minimal stops possible?


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Sit in the back seat with the baby. Have plenty of toys available. Plan for the trip to take at least double the time- you'll be making lots of stops for diaper changes, feedings, and general "get me out of this car seat" time




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Sims 3 doubts about toddlers and those things?




cirillo


Hi everyone! I'm doing a work using Sims 3 game and I have some doubts about the game:
- I have a 4 people family (father, mother, toddlers) and I want them to make a walk in family car, but when I try (being an adult) to choose some location, they always go by taxi!
- Do you know where can I find toddlers' things, like toys, tricycles and prams? I found some good ones at "TheSimsResources" but they are only for subscriber people.
- Can I give toddlers a bath (or only to children?)
I expect your answers and I already thank you! Greetings from Portugal!



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The easiest way to make them travel by their own car is to place the car in one of the adult Sims' inventory. Open the backpack, click on the car, and drag it over to an inventory slot. I'd check Mod the Sims for toddler stuff though since the Sims 3 is still pretty new, there's not much fully custom content yet. Also, you clean a toddler by changing their diaper which doesn't make since if they're potty trained, but it works. You used to be able to bathe them in a tub in the Sims 2.

Travel to Costa Rica with a toddler?




Vanessa M


We'd like to travel to Costa Rica this summer with our two and a half year old. Is is safe for a child that young? What are the best areas or places for us to visit? What about kid-friendly hotels?


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Yes, it is safe as long as you take the a bit more than the normal precautions you would with a two year old and you select the activities with care. None of the most extreme adventures, I am afraid ;-D

Most hotels cater to families and have several activities to do. For example, I was in Punta Leona last summer and my kids (3-6) had a nice kiddie pool, an ice cream bar, minigolf, a butterfly garden, and of course the nice trails, the jungle, and the beach. This is fairly common of the larger beach hotels and even some of the ones in the mountains.

Closer to the city, there is a nice Children's Museum (Museo de los ninos), nice zoos (Zooave, and I forgot the other's name), and an amusement park (Parque Nacional de Diversiones).

With regards to food, we had no problems as Costa Rican fare is rather bland and full of fruits, and sweets. You can also find most large chains (Pizza Hut, McDonalds, etc) and some locations have indoor playgrounds, usually crawling with friendly Costa Rican kids.

There are many parks in San Jose, but I would not play on a city playground, as they do not seem safe. Better to stick to the indoor ones in restaurants and shopping malls (you may have to pay a small fee on the shopping malls).

There are also many very nice stores and shopping malls where you can find indoor playgrounds and buy pretty much any product you need (like the peanut butter for the peanut butter and jelly sandwich that you just can't get in a restaurant).

A couple of tips though:

- You have to be careful while close to nature. Particularly with insects, as they are many variaties that will sting and may be hurtful (but not fatal) for one so small.
-Costa Rican beaches are nice but there are waves and currents that can easily overwhelm a small kid. I would never let my toddler to be more than a few steps from me when walking on the beach or playing in the sand.
- Costa Rican do not approve of parents that let their kids run wild in restaurants or in quiet places like churches or adult oriented museums. Making noise and playing loudly outside is expected, but not in those places.
-Costa Ricans have a smaller "personal space" than other countries, it is not unusual for other kids and even adults to touch your kids and play with them.
-It was very hot and sunny, we had to use suntan lotion every day and ensure the kids stay hydrated (they loved the fruit juices so there was no problem there).

Costa Rica has good pediatricians, hospitals and good touristic infrastructure and quality of life. The 911 line works and most hotels will get you a doctor very quickly if needed.

Finally, remember that there is about 300,000 kids under 5 over there, and that Costa Rican's have one of the highest living standards in Latin America. As long as you are a bit more careful than at home, you should be fine and your kid will have a great time.




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Thursday, May 8, 2014

Traveling with a toddler?




hellothere


My son is 2 1/2 years old. He still sleeps in a crib, but is small for a portable crib. We would like to take him to the beach this summer. But what should I do about the sleeping? I know he could sleep in my bed, but I would like him to sleep in his own. Are there any good traveling beds for toddlers? Any suggestion?


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You can get toddler air beds with attached sleeping bag. They are usually about £30ish, and come with different designs that I'm sure your son would love (cars, toy story ect..)
I advise you get an electronic pump though, as blowing them up by mouth can be a bloody nightmare!

Air travel with toddler?




m smartie


We will be traveling from Phoenix to Hawaii in May with our almost 3 year old daughter. Im looking for some good tips or pointers to make things easier during our travels. Can you please give me your thoughts as to whether or not we should take our childs carseat onto the airplane with us? We have assigned seating in the middle aisle of the airplane for a total of three seats (myself, husband and daughter.) Any other tips would be great as well. Thanks!! Also the two smallest carseats we have are a Britax Advocate, or a Cheaper Evenflo (lighter), which should be take for our overal trip? We are going for 10 total days


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I know a bunch of folks hell bent on carseats on planes...but frankly...1) if you have plane trouble...the carseat isn't going to do you a bit of good. 2) I have never had any luck keeping my child in it. 3) they barely fit in the seats and they are obnoxious to manage.

Bring whatever carseat is safest, regardless of size. Once you get to HI, you install it in the rental car and it's there for two weeks...so it really doesn't matter which one's lighter ...you're ony going to have to deal with it from landing to car pick up anyway.

As far as actual travel....bring a portable DVD, Iphone with videos, small quiet toys, a favorite story and snacks. That's a long flight, so just be prepared to keep them entertained for the entire flight...so my first impulse was to bring brand new videos that they'd never seen, and a few brand new toys and it always took them longer to get bored with the new stuff than the old favorites.

Get there early and board first. They usually let families with small children jump the crowd and get situated before the cattle call of passengers.

Pack a few changes of easy clothes for baby, diaper changes and clothing changes in an airplane bathroom can't be any more impossible and painful than they are now. I used use quart sized zip lock bags to store complete outfits...so all I had to do was grab a ziplock and they had a onsie, pants and socks ready to go. I still do that with wipes and diapers...so I don't have to take a 15 pound diaper bag into a stall with me.

I WOULD gate check a small umbrella stroller if you're bringing one...that way baby can be contained and comfy in the airport and the airline folks will have your stroller waiting for you at the gate when you deboard the plane so that you don't have to run to baggage claim carrying a 30 pound cranky baby.

That's about all I can think of at the moment... If I remember anything else I'll pop back in.

Good Luck and have a great trip.


Ooooh Bring a spare Tshirt for yourself. Had an airsick baby once, with nothing to change into afterward. Have packed myself a fresh shirt, just in case, ever since.




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Airline regulations when traveling with Toddlers?




California


We are travelling on an airplane next month with my 2 year old and 4 year old. From the FAA website, I know that I can bring a carseat for my 2 year old (but not my 4 year old who is over 40 lbs), and juice (in a bag) for both. Are there any other limitiations concerning food? We'd normally bring snacks (crackers and fruit), but I can't find if this is even allowed to carry on any longer. Anyone with recent experience?

Thanks!



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When I went to Hawaii with my son (almost 2) and daughter 4 I brought tons of snacks. Crackers, chips, gum, Ruby's cheeseburger and french fries, etc. They even allowed me to bring baby applesauce on with me. I also brought some strawberries and raspberries but had to eat them all before we got off the plane. (Rules of Hawaii) One thing that helped was I brought empty sippy cups and as soon as we got on requested cans of apple juice. Then you don't have to worry about them spilling the flimsy plastic cups.

Some toys that my kids liked were those magnadoodle and aquadoodle. Just fill up the pens with water on the airplane. You are allowed 3 ounce of liquid but why bother. I would rather not be held up with security with two kids.

If you bring baby food make sure to tell them about it at the checkpoint.

I ended up checking a bag with snacks, water, and juice boxes so we would have some ready when we got off the plane.

Also about carseats. I checked my carseats. My son was under two and didn't have his own seat. And airplanes do not let you use booster seats. It was nice not to have to lug those up to the gate too. If you think it will help your 2 year old sit still then I would suggest it. Get a carseat carrying backpack. It is so nice!! I fit a carseat, booster seat, and huge pack of diapers into it. I got mine on www.babycenter.com

You can take your stroller all the way up to the gate. This was nice because we used it to carry our bags too. At the gate they put it underneath and then when you get off the plane it is waiting for you at the door of the airplane.

Oh...one more thing. Have you and your children wear shoes that are easy to take on and off.

traveling with a toddler?

Q. I am going to London to see my boyfriend and I am bringing our 24 month old daughter, this is a trip I have never taken let alone with a toddler. I am flying out of Philadelphia any ideas of thing I should pack along for her and this long trip. The longest we ever flown was 2 hours to Disney and that was almost crazy because she was on my lap now she will have her own seat. Please help me


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I've been flying internationally & domestically with my children since they were each 2 months (now 8&6,&5 months). At least three trips a year are the children & I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone. We do another 8-10 international and domestic flights a year as a family. I have never had any problems with my children. Here are a few tips and suggestions:

1.) Your child is at the age where she has to have her own seat. The airlines suggest that children under 40lbs use a child safety device - a CRS (Child Restraint System) - because it is safe for the child (especially during turbulence), makes them feel secure, is more comfortable for both parent and child, will help your child sleep, and gives both of you the opportunity to relax a bit. Also, if your child is under 40lbs, the regular seat belts will be too loose and will not restrain her properly.

A CRS is a hard-backed child or infant or child safety seat that is approved by the government for use in both motor vehicles and aircraft.

In order to be certified for use on an airplane, the car seat has to met the Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards. Check the labels on the side of your car restraint for a sticker (words will be printed in red) for verification that your seat is safe for airplane use. Almost all car seats pass this requirement, so most likely you will not need to go buy a new one and can use the one you already have at home.

There is also a new device that is approved by the FAA for airline use ONLY. It is called CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) and costs $75. It weighs 1 pound, is certified for all phases of flight (taxiing, take off, turbulence & landing), adjusts to fit ALL size airplane seats, & is approved for kids 22â44 lbs.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

There are many products out there designed to help the traveling family. Here's a product that can attach to most car seats so that you can use it as a stroller & get it through the airport more easily. http://www.gogobabyz.com/products/gogo_kids.html

2.) Pack plenty of things to entertain your child: a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (be sure to bring extra batteries) or let her use your laptop (make sure it's fully charged) with a few movies, & one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal. I always bring a small pillow & blanket from home for my children (even now) because I know 100% that they are clean, and my children are accustomed to them.

My children bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with & play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, & my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, & stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!
http://www.megabrands.com/en/products/description.php?product_id=1031&brand_id=36&cat=4&age=
I take the contents of the kit out of the box & place them in something a little travel pack. Here is what my sons looks like:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/jamie_hassen/2577667314/ - outside
http://www.flickr.com/photos/jamie_hassen/2577681352/ - inside

You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, & tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where she has a part in it so she stays interested.

You might also consider going to the store & letting your child (I let my children start this at the age of one) pick out her own carry on bag & a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once you are on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without her seeing so that she has an extra surprise when she opens her carry on.

3.) Bring Snacks! just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. are great. New regulations also allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, yogurt, cheese, puddings, etc. with you also as long as they are in containers less than 3oz (100ml)
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10

As long as your child is with you, you are able to take as much milk, juice, and/or baby food that you will need for you child for the duration of the time you will spend in the airport and on the flight (as long as it is within reason).And no, you will NOT have to taste any of it.

All that you must do is:
1. Separate the milk from the liquids, gels, and aerosols in your quart-size (1 liter) zip-top bag.
2. Declare you have the items to one of the Security Officers at the security checkpoint.
3. Present these items for additional inspection once reaching the X-ray. These items are subject to additional screening
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

4.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of wipes, ointments & other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, &pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores & they are wonderful for plane use. One thing I always like to carry with me is hand sanitizer! I always wipe the trays down with that (followed by a baby wipe) & use it for my kids after taking them to the bathroom (even though they wash their hands). I know that airplane bathrooms are not the cleanest, so that is why I try to be vigilant.

Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case She gets sick, spills something on herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.

Bring any medications that you might need for your child should she get sick or that she takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag.
http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm

Try to have your child use the restroom as close to boarding as possible. This will help to make your child feel fresh & more comfortable for take-off (which could also mean less problems).

5.) Not all children have a problem with the pressure changes in their ears. If yours does however you'll want to know how to help. For take-offs and landings (the WHOLE way up, and starting from the BEGINNING, or TOP of descent), the best ways to alleviate ear pressure are to:

*Give her something to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter)
*Give her a pacifier to suck on
*Tell her to yawn
*Give her gum to chew
*Give her hard candy or mints to suck on
*Pinch her nostrils shut, have her take a deep breath in through the mouth, then tell her to (gently) blow as if trying to blow her nose
*Place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out, at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears
*Gently but with some pressure, rub her neck repeatedly from the chin to the base of the neck. This will cause a swallowing motion that will relieve pressure build-up in the ears.

6.) Before you travel, I suggest preparing your child for what to expect so that she is not caught off guard & scared on the day of travel. You want to make sure that you tell her what is going to happen from the time you get to the airport until the time you arrive at your destination. You don't need to go into any great detail here, but give her something that she will be able to reference when actually traveling. If you are able to, I suggest doing a dry run of the airport. This provides you with an opportunity to explain to her what is going to happen while she can see first hand what it looks like. Here are links that talk about what to expect when flying (also includes information about what to do at the airport) that may help you out a bit:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlxCY2D7gKazfods9sO.hnbty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080524223044AA3cjUR&show=7#profile-info-ssBL3Kakaa
http://jamiehassen79.angelfire.com/plane_travel_basics.html

I wrote a small article about flying with children that goes more in-depth, gives security rules & regulations for the US, EU, UK, & Australia, offers tips & tricks for the travel, etc. http://www.angelfire.com/jamiehassen79/flying_children.html

If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.




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Has anyone flown with a toddler?




lupa03


Especially lately with the new rules? We are taking an 7-8 hour plane trip cross country with my son who will have just turned 2 for the trip and was wondering if anyone had any good suggestions or tips for the plane ride? Things to keep them occupied? Ways to get the car seat through the airport? Can we bring our own juice cup and snacks with the new regulations? Any advice and wisdom is greatly appreciated!


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I'm a former Flight Attendant and I fly a lot of long haul alone with my three kids.

We always bring a car seat. They sell gizmos which attach to seats to take through airports but save your money and use a small, foldable, metal luggage cart and an extra bungee cord to secure it in place. One trick I used to do is NOT bring a stroller and my toddler could sit in this contraption if she got tired.

If there are two of you traveling, one can pull the car seat and the other push the stroller. JFYI, here are some of the gadgets sold to help with this situation.

http://www.gogobabyz.com/products/gogo_kids.html
http://www.amazon.com/Traveling-Toddler-Attach-Rolling-Carry/dp/B000JHN3AS
http://www.onestepahead.com/product/osa/363756.html

You could also see if your stroller can transport the car seat. Try it at home and either wedge it into the seat or attach it to the back. Careful of tipping, especially with the latter.

Bravo for taking the car seat on board. You are smart to not check a car seat as luggage. The airlines lose and break them ALL THE TIME and it's too important a piece of safety equipment to leave it up to fate and baggage handlers. Bringing it on board means it gets to your destination with you, in good shape.

Instead of a diaper bag, use a backpack (or a backpack style diaper bag). This will free up your hands. You may want some sort of small bag for essentials. I don't take a purse when I fly.

For entertainment, get him a new toy, anything, and it doesn't have to be expensive. Keep it and give it to him once you're on the plane. I found that stickers, coloring stuff, simple plastic toys (like animals, cars, etc.) and books were better at occupying them at this age. No one will mind if you read to him.

Be sure to buy one or two new toys to give him at critical periods. One is when the plane is pushing back from the gate. Everyone has to be seated and this is tricky for toddlers. Hopefully the toy will keep him occupied, at least until you're in the air!

I actually don't recommend a portable DVD player *unless* he can watch it without sound. I doubt he'll wear the headphones at this age but you can try it at home. If you opt to bring it, make sure it either has a battery life of at least 5 hours or you have a second battery. Bring a recharger and an adapter in case of any delays.

Just some other small tips;
-Bring a change of clothes
-Bring way more diapers than you think you'll need
-Learn to change him standing up (don't try to fit him on one of those tiny baby changers and toddlers hate to lie down in strange places)
-Bring an empty sippy cup to fill during the services. This will prevent spills in the air.
-Get up and move around with him but keep an eye out. Those carts the F/A's use are the perfect height for hiding little ones
-Bring snacks. Don't fret security. I've never had anything taken away (yes, water but not snacks) and that's the only risk. If you have something not allowed, they simply remove the item. No scenes, no speeches, no arrests!
-Try to sit in a bulkhead seat so that there's no one in front of you
-Bring slippers for him, especially if you're not in the bulkhead!

Please shelve any potty training projects until you're on the ground again. Children understand this special situation and putting them back in diapers does not really upset the process. You can't always get a toddler to facilities when traveling and they don't give you a lot of notice. Don't risk an accident.

The 3oz. limit on liquids is not enforced for those flying with children and babies in most countries so bring what she needs. There are no specific food restrictions.

http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

It's actually a myth that they have to drink on take-off and landing. If he falls asleep on take-off, please don't unnecessarily wake him up!

The BEST way to avoid ear issues is to take your little guy to the doctor a few days before flying. My son was good at getting symptomless ear infections. Make sure yours' doesn't have one of those! The doctor will look in his ears and make sure they're clear and infection-free. Healthy ears can handle pressurization changes.

For more information, I wrote an article on this subject. It's based on both my personal and professional experience of flying with kids. It's totally non-commercial and other parents have contributed;
http://flyingwithchildren.blogspot.com

Have a good flight!

Airline Travel with a car seat?




Diann C


I asked this earlier in the General Travel section, but have no replies so I am hoping to get some answers here.

I am traveling next weekend with my toddler (15 months old). We are only going for the weekend so we aren't checking any bags. I am going to be traveling with my carry-on bag and my diaper bag as well as a very active toddler. I would also like to bring her car seat along. She is a lap-sit child, but I can gate check the car seat. In the past we have always had direct flights, but in this case we have multiple lay-overs. Does anyone know that if you gate check a car seat if you then have to pick it up and take it to the next flight? What about if you pay the extra to check it as baggage? If you check it as baggage do you have to have a cover for it? What if it doesn't make it to your destination?
Would I be better off just trying to rent a car seat? Are there places in St. Louis that will do that kind of thing? I heard it's dangerous to rent car seats because you have no way of knowing if they've been in an accident or recalled or anything. I guess I'm just a little worried about traveling with lay-overs with a toddler and all that baggage.
Any advice?



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I'm a former Flight Attendant and I fly a lot with my three children.

You are right to be concerned about rental car company seats. Many are old, expired (most are only good for 6 years) and/or missing parts. Not only that but they charge a lot for them! I had a bad experience when I was a new mother (friends arranged it for us) and a dirty old seat showed up that was too small for him. Not long ago I popped my head in a local agency to see what they had-scary! Definitely better to use your own.

I really recommend not bringing anything on board which you don't need on the aircraft. First problem is that security is sticky about liquids. You are welcome to bring whatever liquids, drinks, etc. for your child but your shampoo, etc. wont make it through.

With an active toddler, especially one who doesn't have a seat, you don't want to be hauling anything extra through the airport. Check in a suitcase with your clothes and just have what you need on the airplane.

Yes, you can gate-check your car seat. You can do this with the stroller. You can use the stroller to transport the car seat but I strap my car seat on to a small metal foldable luggage cart with an extra bungee cord. My child could even ride in this contraption (when too tired to walk).

There are plenty of gadgets to transport car seats in airports sold. The Gogokidz is often cited but I think it's overpriced. The backpack converter is a good idea if you have a stroller. You would push the stroller with the car seat on your back but I recommend switching it to the stroller when she's walking.

The best solution is to see if you can use your car seat on board. This is really the only way to fly safely with a baby. Ask nicely at check-in if the flight is full and if you can have an empty seat placed next to you.

Put the gate-check tag on your stroller anyway. If you don't manage to get your daughter a place, the seat will go down with the wheelchairs and strollers. You will then collect it at arrival either at the door of the aircraft or at the bottom of the "air stairs" if deplaning outside. Take whatever gizmo you're using to transport the car seat with you on the plane.

Never check a car seat in as luggage, especially not on the kind of flight you're taking, with multiple connections. It could too easily be lost and/or damaged in the hold. Gate-checking is better than checking it in as a bag. At least with gate-checking, you can try to use it onboard for every leg of your journey and you will know for sure how far it got. The airlines will NOT take responsibility for damage on what they consider to be a "delicate" item. Lost bags are usually returned in a couple of days but how will you leave the airport with your child? Totally unsecured?

While she doesn't have a seat on the plane, air travel is much safer than road travel. Lap children are allowed because of commercial reasons but please do try to get that seat on board. This is a very tricky age to travel. Toddlers are active and don't understand why sometimes they have to sit still.

For more information, nine years ago I wrote an article on this subject. It's based on both my personal and professional experience of flying with children. It's totally non-commercial and other parents from around the world have contributed;
http://flyingwithchildren1.blogspot.com

Good luck and have a good flight!




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Wednesday, May 7, 2014

What should i take on the plane for my toddler, to keep her busy?




nataliya


We will be flying for 10 hours, what can keep her busy onn the plane.She is almost 3 years old. Please let me know your ideas!


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I've been flying internationally and domestically with my children since they were 2 months (now 8&5). At least three trips a year are the children and I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone. In addition to that, we do another 8-10 international and domestic flights a year as a family. I have never had any problems with my children on any of the flights. Here are a few tips and suggestions:


1.) Bring Snacks! just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. are great. New regulations also allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, yogurt, cheese, puddings, etc. with you also as long as they are in containers less than 3oz (100ml)
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#9

As long as your child is with you, you are able to take as much formula, breast milk, or regular milk that you will need for you child for the duration of the time you will spend in the airport and on the flight (as long as it is within reason).And no, you will NOT have to taste it - no matter what form you bring it in.

All that you must do is:

1. Separate the milk from the liquids, gels, and aerosols in your quart-size (1 liter) zip-top bag.
2. Declare you have the items to one of the Security Officers at the security checkpoint.
3. Present these items for additional inspection once reaching the X-ray. These items are subject to additional screening
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

2.) Make sure to pack plenty of things to entertain your child, such as a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (be sure to bring extra batteries) or let her use your laptop (make sure it's fully charged) with a few movies, and one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal. I always bring a small pillow and blanket from home for my children (even now) because I know 100% that they are clean, and my children are accustomed to them.

My children like to bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), and scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with and play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, and my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, and stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!

You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, and tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where your child has a part in it so she stays interested.

You might also consider going to the store and letting your child (I let my children start this at the age of one) pick out her own carry on bag and a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once you are on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without her seeing so that she has an extra surprise when she opens her carry on.

3.) You will need to have all your daughters documents in order. It is a good idea to keep a copy of her notarized birth certificate with you.

Keep your doctors name and number with you. Also get the name and number of a doctor where you are visiting in case an emergency should come up.

Another thing you should consider bringing with you is your childs immunization book. That way if any emergency should arise while you are on vacation (no matter where you are) the treating physician will at least have some verifiable information to go on. This book also usually includes what your child is allergic to, and some small but very helpful notes from your doctor.

Verify what travel documents you will need in advance to make sure you have everything.

4.) A car seat is not mandatory, but is highly recommended. Since your child is over two, she needs to have her own seat, but the problem is that she may be too small for the seat belts to fit her and restrain her properly (they'll be too loose).

I do advise using a CRS (Child Restraint System) because it is safe for the child - especially during turbulence, makes them feel secure, is more comfortable for both parent and child, will help your child sleep, and gives both of you the opportunity to relax a bit.

A CRS is a hard-backed child or infant or child safety seat that is approved by the government for use in both motor vehicles and aircraft.

In order to be certified for use on an airplane, the car seat has to met the Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards. Check the labels on the side of your car restraint for a sticker (words will be printed in red) for verification that your seat is safe for airplane use. Almost all car seats pass this requirement.

There is also a new device that is approved by the FAA for airline use ONLY. It is called CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) and costs $75. It weighs 1 pound, is certified for all phases of flight (taxiing, take off, turbulence and landing), adjusts to fit ALL size airplane seats, and is approved for kids 22â44 lbs.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

Many airlines offer half-price tickets so parents can be guaranteed that their child can travel in a CRS device. You should call your airline to ask for a discount.

5.) Not all children have a problem with the pressure changes in their ears. If yours does however you'll want to know how to help. For take-offs and landings (the WHOLE way up, and starting from the BEGINNING, or TOP of descent), the best ways to alleviate ear pressure are to:

*Give her something to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter)
*Give her a pacifier to suck on
*Give her hard candy or mints to suck on
*Give her gum to chew
*Place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out, at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears
*Gently but with some pressure, rub her neck repeatedly from the chin to the base of the neck. This will cause a swallowing motion that will relieve pressure build-up in the ears.

You can also try using a decongestant. It is always best to check with your doctor before using any type of medications though, to make sure you are using the one best suited to your childs needs. I personally have found pain relief medications don't really help, and at least in my experience, decongestants are a waste of money.

6.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of wipes, ointments and other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, and such and pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores and they are wonderful for plane use. One thing I always like to carry with me is hand sanitizer! I always wipe the trays down with that (followed by a baby wipe) and use it for my kids after taking them to the bathroom (even though they wash their hands). I know that airplane bathrooms are not the cleanest, so that is why I try to be vigilant.

Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case she gets sick, spills something on herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.

Bring any medications that you might need for your child should she get sick or that she takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm

Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making her sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well. I have also seen where it backfires; a parent gives their child a dose of Benedryl to make them sleep, but instead it gets the child more hyper and the parents get absolutely no rest on the flight (and neither does anyone else).

Try to have your child use the toilet as close to boarding as possible. This will help to make you daughter feel fresh and more comfortable for take-off (which could also mean less problems).

7.) Don't worry about what the other passengers are going to think or say should your child cry. This will only add stress, which your child can pick up on, and it could make her cry longer and harder. Instead, just relax, and handle the situation like you would if you were at home. Most times the other passengers are very understanding anyways and some will even try to help you. Which reminds me, if help is offered to you, TAKE it!

8.) Before you travel, I always suggest preparing children for what to expect so that they are not caught off guard and scared on the day of travel. You want to make sure that you tell him what is going to happen from the time you get to the airport until the time you arrive at your destination. You don't need to go into any great detail here, but give her something that she will be able to reference when actually traveling. If you are able to, I always suggest doing a dry run of the airport. This provides you with an opportunity to explain to your child what is going to happen while he can see first hand what it looks like.

Here is a link to a question I answered about what to expect when flying (also includes information about what to do at the airport) that may help you out a bit: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnuyJVZLZSuuQXP6rCWLSLvty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071108205522AAKqKgt&show=7#profile-info-a15ae544077933e44570caf0403c65abaa




I wrote a small article about flying with children that goes more in-depth, gives airport security rules and regulations for the US, EU, and UK, plus offers tips and tricks for the travel, etc. http://www.angelfire.com/jamiehassen79/flying_children.html

If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.

Any tips for air travel with a toddler?




max's mamm


I am going alone to visit my parents. My 20 month old has flown before, but my husband and in-laws were with. I have packed a number of special toys, a video IPOD and snacks. What I would love are specific things that have worked for you. Especially people who have traveled with new restrictions. He is super busy!! What would not be appreciated are suggestions not to fly (not an option) or use Benedryl (he reacts)


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I've been flying internationally and domestically with my children since they were 2 months (now 8&5 and baby number 3 was born 23 December). At least three trips a year are the children and I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone. In addition to that, we do another 8-10 international and domestic flights a year as a family. I have never had any problems with my children on any of the flights. Here are some tips and advice that have always worked for me:

1.) Make sure to pack plenty of things to entertain your child, such as a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (be sure to bring extra batteries) or let him/her use your laptop (make sure it's fully charged) with a few movies, and one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal. I always bring a small pillow and blanket from home for my children (even now) because I know 100% that they are clean, and my children are accustomed to them.

My children like to bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), and scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with and play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, and my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, and stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!

You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, and tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where your child has a part in it so s/he stays interested.

You might also consider going to the store and letting your child (I let my children start this at the age of one) pick out his/her own carry on bag and a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once you are on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without him/her seeing so that s/he has an extra surprise when s/he opens his/her carry on.


2.) Bring Snacks! just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. are great. New regulations also allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, yogurt, cheese, puddings, etc. with you also as long as they are in containers less than 3oz (100ml)
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10

As long as your child is with you, you are able to take as much formula, breast milk, or regular milk that you will need for you child for the duration of the time you will spend in the airport and on the flight (as long as it is within reason).And no, you will NOT have to taste it - no matter what form you bring it in.

All that you must do is:

1. Separate the milk from the liquids, gels, and aerosols in your quart-size (1 liter) zip-top bag.
2. Declare you have the items to one of the Security Officers at the security checkpoint.
3. Present these items for additional inspection once reaching the X-ray. These items are subject to additional screening
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

3.) Not all children have a problem with the pressure changes in their ears. If yours does however you'll want to know how to help. For take-offs and landings (the WHOLE way up, and starting from the BEGINNING, or TOP of descent), the best ways to alleviate ear pressure are to:


*Give him/her something to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter)
*Give him/her a pacifier to suck on
*Place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out, at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears
*Gently but with some pressure, rub his/her neck repeatedly from the chin to the base of the neck. This will cause a swallowing motion that will relieve pressure build-up in the ears.

You can also try using a decongestant. It is always best to check with your doctor before using any type of medications though, to make sure you are using the one best suited to your childs needs. I personally have found pain relief medications don't really help, and at least in my experience, decongestants are a waste of money.

4.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of wipes, ointments and other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, and such and pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores and they are wonderful for plane use. One thing I always like to carry with me is hand sanitizer! I always wipe the trays down with that (followed by a baby wipe) and use it for my kids after taking them to the bathroom (even though they wash their hands). I know that airplane bathrooms are not the cleanest, so that is why I try to be vigilant.

Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case s/he gets sick, spills something on him/herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.

Bring any medications that you might need for your child should s/he get sick or that s/he takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm

Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making her sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well. I have also seen where it backfires; a parent gives their child a dose of medicine to make them sleep, but instead it gets the child more hyper and the parents get absolutely no rest on the flight (and neither does anyone else).

Try to change your childs diaper (or have him/her use the restroom) as close to boarding as possible. This will help to make your child feel fresh and more comfortable for take-off (which could also mean less problems).

5.) Don't worry about what the other passengers are going to think or say should your child cry. This will only add stress, which your child can pick up on, and it could make him/her cry longer and harder. Instead, just relax, and handle the situation like you would if you were at home. Most times the other passengers are very understanding anyways and some will even try to help you. Which reminds me, if help is offered to you, TAKE it!


I wrote a small article about flying with children that goes more in-depth, gives airport security rules and regulations for the US, EU, and UK, plus offers tips and tricks for the travel, etc. http://www.angelfire.com/jamiehassen79/flying_children.html

If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.




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your worst travelling experience?




luckylu2k3


im sat in dublin aitport bored and waiting for my flight to see my mum in england and i can not stand travelling its so freaking annoying, whats your worst, i need a laugh please x


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I have a few. I am pretty much a cry baby or something because all my horror stories involve me thinking I am going to die.

#1- Traveling from San Francisco to Perth Australia, via Hong Kong and Singapore. We encountered severe turbulence- that 747 was getting tossed around like a toy plane- after the flight attendants were rushing about the cabin- then checking in with emergency row people (read the card instructions! I was sitting a row behind the emergency row)- they strapped themselves in. It was scary.

What was even scarier is that the captain came on the loud speaker asking if there was a doctor on board. Turns out the turbulence made some man have a heart attack. We had to do an emergency landing in Tokyo. to get this guy off the plane. Except we weren't supposed to land in Tokyo and because we were international we didn't have clearance to leave the plane and the airport wasn't open so we could land but not take off. We had to sit on the plane from 3:00 AM to 7:00 AM Tokyo time- they opened the doors but still. It sucked. 18 hours on that silly plane until we landed in Hong Kong.

#2- Going to Maui from San Jose- right after take off and the first left bank of the plan- the whole plane shuddered hard- like a car slamming on it's brakes and a loud sound. Then the captain comes out of the cockpit and starts looking out the right side of the airplane at wing. Of course I was sitting on the left side in a row by myself so I couldn't see anything. Pilot looked out the windows all along the right side- spoke to the flight attendants strapped in the middle of the aircraft then went back to the cock pit. So thinking I was gonna die- I unbuckled myself and walked to the flight attendant to ask what was going on. She didn't even yell at me to sit back down - but said the captain thought the right engine took a bird. I walked back to my seat and it was dead silent. The honeymoon couple in my row on the opposite side asked if I wanted to sit with them. Finally the pilot came on and said they are checking all the instruments and if it looks good then we'll go on to Maui if not we'll land at San Francisco. Anyways- we made it to Maui but it was scary and the pilot came back out an actually spoke to me for awhile.

#3- Flight from San Jose to Miami. Miami was having a summer thunder storm. On approach to the airport- we were about to land when the pilot gunned the engine and started to try and take off again before we landed. SCARY! Again- the plane was dead silent. We made it up and landed in Fort Meyers. Turns out there was wind shear or something and the air traffic control diverted 8 planes. I had never experienced a miss approached and never want to again. I pretty much almost had a heart attack.

#4- Flying once from Nashville to San Jose- was stuck next to huge woman who kinda smelled musty and was large she had to left the arm rest to fit in her seat. I was jammed next to her fatness and musty-ness the whole flight back. Ewwww.

#5- A plane from Houston to San Jose couldn't start- so we had no air while the mechanics were trying to fix the problem. So they had to "jump start" the plane. I pretty much almost gave myself another heart attack thinking power would cut off to the plane at some point in the flight AND they were having bad weather in Houston.

#6- on flight from St Louis to Phoenix- there was a ton of turbulence going into Phoenix- so bad in fact that after we landed a little old lady went up to the pilots and YELLED at them about learning to control their plane better because in all her years she never experienced such a lack of control from pilots. That was funny.

Traveling with a toddler?




SIB


Do you think I should buy an extra seat for my super energetic 17 months old on the flight from San Francisco to New York? We are flying redeye to NY and coming back in the middle of the day... Do you know if we can take a Toddler car seat ( not the baby car seats) on the plane? How do you make a toddler comfortable on a long flight?


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We flew across Australia (not quite as far as NY - SFO) with the two of us (hubby and me), with a 3 1/2 and a 16 month old. We didn't buy a separate seat for the 16 month old. We took turns holding her. The keys are: don't let them nap beforehand (so they're sleepy), plenty of snacks, and simple, hard-to-lose toys like bright picture books. I don't remember great problems. (Though I think we were even lucky enough to get a spare empty seat to use on one flight).

If you're going without a second adult, it might be harder, but that's what we did.

Perhaps I'm misunderstanding you, but I don't know why you'd take a toddler seat. If she hasn't got her own seat, there's no room. If she does, well a 17 month old can sit in a normal plane seat OK anyway.




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Monday, May 5, 2014

Traveling to Hawaii with 2 toddlers.....?




fyrechick


We are traveling to Hawaii in Feb with a 2 1/2 and a 4 month old. My question is what is easier on the children and parents, a flight with a few stops or a straight through flight. I dont think coming home will be a problem because it is a night flight but I am worried about going out there. We are traveling from Florida so straight through is at least 12 hrs. Any past experiences or help, my toddler is not very good for long distance so that is who I am thinking of the most.


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My first instinct was non-stop, but from Florida, wow... I'd say schedule a stop or two. I know I couldn't drive from my house to Vegas (about 6 hours) with my nieces w/o stopping to stretch. The good thing about layovers is you can exercise the toddler, and feed him/her some "fast food" which they may like better than airline food. Maybe fly to LA witha layover and then on to Hawaii. (It's about 6 hours from LAX to HNL). I'm taking a14 year old cheerleader and 9 year old cheerleader in Feb and I'm thinking about tranqs!!!

Airline regulations when traveling with Toddlers?




California


We are travelling on an airplane next month with my 2 year old and 4 year old. From the FAA website, I know that I can bring a carseat for my 2 year old (but not my 4 year old who is over 40 lbs), and juice (in a bag) for both. Are there any other limitiations concerning food? We'd normally bring snacks (crackers and fruit), but I can't find if this is even allowed to carry on any longer. Anyone with recent experience?

Thanks!



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When I went to Hawaii with my son (almost 2) and daughter 4 I brought tons of snacks. Crackers, chips, gum, Ruby's cheeseburger and french fries, etc. They even allowed me to bring baby applesauce on with me. I also brought some strawberries and raspberries but had to eat them all before we got off the plane. (Rules of Hawaii) One thing that helped was I brought empty sippy cups and as soon as we got on requested cans of apple juice. Then you don't have to worry about them spilling the flimsy plastic cups.

Some toys that my kids liked were those magnadoodle and aquadoodle. Just fill up the pens with water on the airplane. You are allowed 3 ounce of liquid but why bother. I would rather not be held up with security with two kids.

If you bring baby food make sure to tell them about it at the checkpoint.

I ended up checking a bag with snacks, water, and juice boxes so we would have some ready when we got off the plane.

Also about carseats. I checked my carseats. My son was under two and didn't have his own seat. And airplanes do not let you use booster seats. It was nice not to have to lug those up to the gate too. If you think it will help your 2 year old sit still then I would suggest it. Get a carseat carrying backpack. It is so nice!! I fit a carseat, booster seat, and huge pack of diapers into it. I got mine on www.babycenter.com

You can take your stroller all the way up to the gate. This was nice because we used it to carry our bags too. At the gate they put it underneath and then when you get off the plane it is waiting for you at the door of the airplane.

Oh...one more thing. Have you and your children wear shoes that are easy to take on and off.




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Weaning a toddler from breastfeeding?




Lillian an


It hasn't been a very good start.
The first time we were 400 miles away from home and my breasts hurt too much to do it so we let her cry and cry and cry while I carried her around, rubbing her back and singing to her. It took an hour.

The next day we had to travel- her in her carseat and I couldn't hold her or rock her to sleep so I just let her nurse.

3rd day we were home and she didn't get it that whole day until night time when she was absolutely bone tired. She nursed 3 mins and fell asleep.

4th day I didn't nurse her until we came back from walmart where several things happened-- never go on fridays after school lets out! I had a stress migraine and let her nurse 2 times. Once for nap, other for night. She went to sleep by herself that night.*

5th day I was having serious gas pains and was too tired to really tell her no and then help her to sleep otherwise so she got it normally. She struggled, but went to sleep again by herself. *

6th day I again had a bad headache and was very tired.

Now I'm on day 7 and im very forgetful like sporadic moments where routine just sets in and I let her nurse a little (habit I tell ya!) and then I distracted her by playing and watching a blues clues episode. She bawls and throws a fit when I don't let her have it and **she will go to sleep at night by me just holding her and walking around but the second I lay down with her (we cosleep) she wants to nurse and by that time its like 11/12 and I'm pooped and she nurses for 3 mins and nods off by herself.

Hubby thinks she should get to nurse at night and thats all and just eliminate day time feedings all together but its easiest at night for her to fall asleep alone. So I am not sure how to go about this. What do you think would work best? Keep in mind she is really attached and has b/f since birth and she is 3 days shy of being 17 months. What are some other soothing things I can do for her other than singing/rocking? I tried a paci/bottle but she hates both. I know it is TERRIBLE to introduce it so late, but I absolutely have to get her off. Breastfeeding hurts like nothing else and I've had a terrible infection and it took forever for them to become unengorged so I have struggled thru it. I am also 14w4d pregnant and I have an irritable uterus on top of all this and the doctor has advised me to wean asap and I have an appt in 2 more weeks and was hoping to wean her by then.

thanks so much for reading!!!!!!!!!!



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Have you also been placed on 'pelvic rest' (ie 'no sex')? Because if not there is *no* reason that you should have been told to wean. Intercourse can cause the same type of contractions that breastfeeding does... if you are 'ok' for sex then you are ok for nursing. Many doctors simply don't acknowledge this fact... and are quick to jump to weaning as a solution to every problem.

However... on the issue of toddler weaning techniques I'd look here: http://www.kellymom.com/bf/weaning/weaning_techniques.html
Some of these include things you have already been doing... it is just going to take time to make them work. Distractions, changes in routine... all good. Don't feel bad about nursing her at times... Shortening sessions *is* part of weaning... nursing a little is not a problem. In fact 'cold turkey' weaning is not good for either of you.

If you really feel you *must* cut back... don't feel pressured to do it *too* quickly. Engorgement and infections aren't going to make pregnancy easier even if sore nipples while a toddler nurses during pregnancy aren't the most fun either.

What do you do about car seats & strollers when you travel?




ck


I'm thinking of packing up the car seat and checking it in. Then taking an umbrella stroller on board. The problem is hauling the car seat around along with the rest of my bags plus the baby! Is there a better solution? I'm traveling with my 20 month old toddler. Thanks!


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This sounds like Deja Vu! I just flew in May when my daughter was 19 months old and I had to think about all of that as well. Here's what we did and it worked great!!! We checked her luggage in with all of the other suitcases because we didn't need it on the plane. She sat on our laps, we didn't buy her her own seat. Is your toddler in their own seat? If so, then they'll have to sit in the carseat. However, at the end of each flight, I would ask the flight attendant if they're able to transport the seat to the connecting flight's plane, that way, when you arrive at the gate to board the plane, it's there and you just have to install it. I would think that they could easily do it! They move luggage to the connecting flight after all!!! As for the stroller, I brought my normal full size stroller because it was more comfortable for my daughter so that she could lay back and sleep. When you check in explain to them that you need to "gate check" your stroller. They'll give you a tag to put on your stroller so that you/they can identify it. When you go to board the plane, you just take out your toddler, break down your stroller, and leave it right there. They'll take it and store it in a special compartment below the plane. When you land, they automatically bring your stroller out so the moment you step off the plane into that connecting hallway, it's right there! It was so convenient and hassle free to fly that way. I know you didn't ask about this...but here's some other flying pointers that worked for me. I went to the dollar store and bought cheap little toys and stuff and I wouldn't let my daughter see it until the day ofthe flight, that way it was something new for her to play with. Also, if you have a portable DVD player I recommend you bring it. My daughter just sat on our laps and watched her movies most of the flights. Good luck flying!!!




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What was your experience traveling with your baby/toddler?







Any tips from your personal experience would be great. Can you also say what age your baby was the first time you traveled with him/her & how you prefer to travel? Etc...

Also, what are some items you would recommend (or you think are absolutely necessary) for traveling with a 6 month old baby? & Do you think it would it be better to drive or take a plane or train?

Thanks :)



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We have traveled by plane and car several times with our infants and toddlers. Very often we visit my parents in Toronto during the winter break, and with seven children, we have brought our fair share of small children back and forth at least once every year.

My tips are pretty common-sense and are probably things you have already considered, but here they are:

1. Bring some plastic bags that are easy to reach during the trip. Why? Because children get messy and a garbage container isn't always close by. Dirty undies, half eaten goodies, wipes, wet clothes... all these things are likely to happen with little ones and you don't want to be puzzled and grossed out while trying to put these things away.

2. Make sure you pack medication in an easy to reach place in your bag. Prescriptions meds go without saying. Things like tylenol, cough syrup, aspirin for you, a thermometer and band-aids could be your life savers. I don't always use them, but the few times I forgot to bring them were the time I needed them urgently.

3. Do not stuff your bags or trunks with toys, coloring books and movies for the children. By the end of the trip you are likely to realize that most of the stuff you carried went unnoticed and it only robbed you of space and energy by having to carry them around. Plus, some things might get lost if you bring tons of things. If your child is old enough, involves him or her in choosing which toys will come and which will wait at home. If your baby is too little, bring a blankie or something to help him or her sleep and a small trinket to keep them entertained.

4. If you are flying and/or if it is desirable, divide the family into two groups for the trip. We do this when we need to be very practical. My husband or I leave first with most of the luggage and the older children, and the other one follows a few days later with the little children. It isn't the idealized image of a happy family trip with road-trip songs and fun, but it gets us where we want to go quickly and more relaxed. That way, we only have to focus on a few things instead of having to juggle everything at the same time.

5. Bring fresh, comfort food for the trip. We always bring our own lunches and fruits, regardless of the means of transportation. Something dry and easy to eat for the kids is my best bet.

6. If your child is old enough to understand, explain the logistics of the trip. Even if it seems pointless, it helps a little to run over the new things they will be facing (airport crowd, homeland security, long hours sitting inside the car) and also announce that potty time is going to be trickier than usual.

7. If you are traveling by plane or train, ask the travel agency about family-friendly seats. I prefer them. Sitting with other children keeps the kids happier and also spares us most of the anguish of facing annoyed adult fellow-travelers.

I love to travel by train, but the chances are rare and far-between. Driving is fun for certain occassions. If we have plenty of time to get to our destination and it is reasonably close, we will get the old suburban out of the garage and enjoy a family trip. I love the plane because it is quick, but the overall experience of airport, airport security and the plane itself isn't fun for the kids or for us.

Have fun and good luck with your trip.

Traveling with a Toddler?




katheriner


I am going to take my daughter with me to visit family for the holiday. We will drive 2 and a half hours there and make the trip back in one day. Any suggestions on how to do this so that she can have a good day?


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Take lots of breaks. Along the way, find parks or maybe a shopping mall with a toy store, and make it fun (if you have a simple camera, let her take a few snapshots of whatever you see). Baby Einstein CDS are fun too, or teach her some new songs along the way. And before you head back, get her really wound up at your family's house so she will sleep all the way home. It may sound crazy but it works!




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Sunday, May 4, 2014

how much money does having a baby cost?!?

Q. I understand in the long run having a child is very expensive, especially when they get to school age and need this and that and a car and college, etc. But I want to have a child in the next year or so. My husband is convinced that he's not having one until he's "financially stable" when in essence really isn't possible for most people. B/c he means he wants to have enough saved up for EVERYTHING before we even have one... which unless you're a millionaire i don't believe is possible. So to start off, how much do you really need extra a month? We both make a pretty good amount of money for where we live. A crib, clothes, diapers, medicine, etc would be given to us to start off with by family members and friends... I know most people buy newborn and 1-3 month stuff for showers so I plan on, when I get pregnant, buying one thing of diapers every week that i'm pregnant and probably clothes as well. so with all of that in consideration how much do you think a couple needs to begin?
The Gimp- he does want a baby. He would have one now if he thought we had the money. He wants to spoil his child and give it everything he can. And i know it's a lot overall... i just meant an average per month for neccessary and unexpected things. But thanks for the input.


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One thing that you can tell your husband is that if you are waiting until you are "financially ready" you never will be. As your income increases, usually so do your expenses. I can just let you know what my husband and I did. We did exactly what you suggested about the diapers, and currently have over 2,000 diapers waiting for our son (I am due basically any second now). I bought clothes at the end of each season based on what his size should be for next year. Our crib, which converts from a crib, to a toddler bed, to a day bed to a full size bed, cost about $350. I plan on breastfeeding, but we did get some formula just in case, but we didn't actually even pay for that. Similac, Nestlee, and another brand sent me full size free samples after creating a registry at Babies R Us. We bought a travel system instead of buying a car seat and stroller seperate, that was $200. I bought my bobby pillow off ebay, for $17 (included the pillow and 3 slip covers). My breastpump was a really good find, usually $300, I found it on a one-day sale for $150. Remember (especially if this pregnancy is planned) that you will have about 8 months from the time you KNOW you're pregnant to plan/pre-buy. I was overwhelmed at first, but I have been told by experienced mothers that I have WAY more than enough, and I have not had to buy anything since I was 6 1/2 months pregnant. If you space out your purchases you will be fine. I do not work (I am a student) and my husband just has a "regular" job. We are not poor, but we are not rolling in cash either. We have been absolutely fine financially and one thing you can do is if one of your income's covers your bills, you can put the other income into savings to create a cushion for when you are off of work. I hope this helped.

I am going to be a 19 year old father. Any advice?




Charlie


We planned this and we are very happy. I only want good advice and no criticism for being a teenage father. Thank you
I guess people don't read all of it, we planned it. And no abortions



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No criticism here :)

First of all, I think its great that you both planned this pregnancy. Most young people don't & things become difficult. I live in an area where young people have babies, either just for the money or because they are careless so they just have abortions or when the baby is born they just palm their babies off to their parents/grand parents.

If you've graduated year 12, that's fantastic! It shouldn't take you long to find a good job if you haven't already. Do you have a job? If so, you're safe. If not, you should probably get out there & try to obtain a good job. Babies are not cheap.

You'll not only have to take care of yourself, but now you'll have to take care of your partner (& your baby when it comes along). Your own little family.

Book in for a Pregnancy Workshop. This is something that you & your partner can do together to bond more with your unborn baby. You'll learn everything you need to know. My fiance & I are first time parents & we planned our pregnancy too. We just attended a Pregnancy Weekend Workshop, which we both thought was great. We learnt about everything (be sure to take a notepad).

When buying baby items: Do it on a budget. My fiance & I are due to have our first baby in mid-April & we've bought everything on a budget. We haven't spent over $1,000 yet & we've bought a brand new travel system (pram/baby capsule/connection), 2nd hand change table with bath, 2nd hand & brand new clothing, brand new breast pump, 2nd hand electric steriliser, brand new potty (when toilet training is necessary) & quite a few other things. We're buying brand new cloth nappies next month, which will cost us $500 & a 2nd hand cot/toddler bed. Buy from places such as eBay, trading post (if from Australia), etc...We bought some stuff brand new & some stuff second hand. Just keep your options open when buying items for your baby & don't just buy what you see, wait & see if prices go down & do your research.

When the time comes to have your baby. My only suggestions are:
- Take it how it comes, you'll learn as you go along
- As soon as your partner hits 13 weeks start buying your baby stuff (trust me, the weeks go very fast)
- Don't listen to what everyone else says 'its your baby, not theirs"
- If people want to help then let them help You'll need it once your baby is born)
- Look after yourselves as a family
- Pick baby names that you both want, not what others want (& don't worry about what others think)
- SUPPORT YOUR PARTNER (not only will she need it but she will appreciate it)
- Have fun being parents




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