Travelling with Toddlers to Nairobi, Kenya?

Mommy2twin

I have 19 month old twins and an 8 years old. We are planning a trip to my husbands hometown of Nairobi (and where his parents live in Mackakos) in Feb/Mar 2011. I've done a lot of reading and think I am prepared for the flight, even though I know they may scream the entire 19 hours! But we will make it. My current concerns are regarding vaccinations and medications. I believe in vaccinations, but like to do them at a slower pace then what is recommended. The twins will be 22 months when we travel and are up to date on all of there US shots. The recommendations before we go include yellow fever, typhoid, meningococcal, and malarone pills for malaria. I was pretty much set against the vaccines and thought we would just take all precautions and be very vigilant about mosquito's, but after reading about the yellow fever I am conflicted. And the actual vaccine is live and has lots of potential side effects. Another question I have is regarding breastfeeding while getting the vaccines, it states that I shouldn't get the vaccine because I'm breastfeeding, but I'm supposed to get it for them? That doesn't make any sense. If anyone has any information I would truly appreciate it!
PS I have talked with my pediatrician multiple times and SHE is following the CDC's recommendations. As a parent I need to make an educated decision about the risk/benefits of these vaccines and medications for my children.

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Listen to your pediatrician.
There are good hospitals in Kenya where you can go if you have concerns during your trip.

sweetbug: ..."especially to a place as remote as Kenya..." Really????

taking a trip to europe in june 2010 with my baby, who will be about 2.8yrs of age by then..?

copper

will be going on a group tour for 16 days around 10 countries. will be travelling in coach.
---please suggest what i should pack along
---is it ok to travel with a kid of 2.8years??
----what i should pack for my kid??
---any vaccination required??
---how much cash i should carry for shopping n eating around?[exclude travel n hotel, as that we would pay in advance to the tour operater]
Thanks all for your answers..
-We have changed our minds now, we will be doing a individual trip to 3 countries in 10days instead :).. italy, france n switzerland.
-we will take train/rail while travelling one county/city to another.
-am travelling with my husband n child-who will be 3 by 2010 Aug-thats whn we will take the trip.

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First of all, if you want to travel by tour group, make sure you pick a tour that welcomes children.
There are tours that do, and there are tours that don't.
Some might allow toddlers, but will not accommodate for them.

I think a 10 countries in 16 days kind of tour is not good for a small child, up to ten years of age at least, and certainly not suitable for a toddler.

Rethink.
If you really want to do an 'all of Europe in two weeks' tour, leave your child home, with a good babysitter.
If you want to travel with your child, adjust to a kind of holiday he/she can enjoy.
Settle in one place for a few days, so the child can find a home away from home, and maybe move to a different location once.

For your child, all normal childhood vaccinations are required, for you non.

Packing depends on whether you can do laundry or not.
If you travel a lot, pack two outfits per day for the child, and one per day for you.
If you travel sensible, staying in one place a little longer, you can cut it down to one outfit per day for the little one and only about 4 in total for yourself. As you can be sure to clean the ones you have used, and will have more rest to avoid messes which will happen when you have to feed your little one in a coach or in a short lunch stop.

How much cash you need for shopping depends on your habbits, but count on Europe being way more expensive than the USA, Australia or New Zealand, (whichever is your home country.)
Count on twice to three times as expensive.
You will need about â¬50 per adult per day for food when eating out.
The child might need about half that, or a little less.
If you do not travel with a tour, you will need about â¬100 per adult per day when traveling with a child.
The child might need a little, but not a lot that way, as she/he can sleep in a cot in your room in most hotels.

If you plan on traveling alone with your child, do you have permission of his/her other parent?
And do you have a passport already? As the other parent will have to sign the paperwork for applying for a passport and may have to give you written and notarized permission to take the child out of the country.

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Toddler on an airplane?

mommy of 2

My daughter and I are going on a trip, and I was wondering what kind of identification she will need, if any?

I was also looking for some tips on what kind of things to bring on the plane with me. Thank you!

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Acceptable forms of identification are established by the T.S.A

However when a child under the age of 18 is traveling with an adult they are not required to show any identification. Unless the child is a lap child then they might ask to see Birth Cert. to verify age. If your going out of the country you will need a pasport. Me personally when I travel with my son (one year old) I bring a copy of his Birth Cert. Just in case. I have yet to be asked to show it. But the one time they might ask I want to make sure I do have it on hand.

About things for you to bring for your child. Anything that you know she likes that will keep here happy. Toys she really like if she has a favorit book or coloring books. Snacks she loves to eats. Any thing to keep her busy sitting down.
If you dont have a min. DVD player it is worth it to get one. A few of her fav. moves & your there in no time! ;o)

Hope this helps!

flying with a toddler?

Kayla

My daughter is going to be 2 in june. we are taking a flight on May 22nd at around 6pm. I am worried about how she will handle the airplane. I tried to book a later kind of flight so that way she might be sleepy but I dont know... Does anyone have advice on flying with a toddler in a plane. o ya our flight is luckly only 2 hours

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If you are prepared and take a few easy steps, the flight will be a breeze. The idea of getting her to sleep is a good one, though with only a two hour flight, it will be easier than you think. It would be useful to allow her some to run around a bit before boarding. Basically, see if the airport you are departing from has a children's play area, and let her run loose. The goal is to let her wear herself out. You can also try to shorten her nap (but don't skip it, then you will have an overtired, cranky tot).

Here are the things to consider... First is hydration! The air in the cabin comes in from a source on the engine (called "bleed air"). Being from the ambient air outside, it is remarkably dry. It is at most single digits, if that much at all. The problem here is breathing. We lose water normally from sweat, urination, etc; but in an airplane we also loose a lot from just breathing. The moisture comes when we exhale.

Any adult can easily become dehydrated if not taking in adequate water, but for a small child, this is an even greater concern. At two hours, you will be alright, but she will be more cranky if she is tired and thirsty... :)

You will likely have to purchase the water or juice inside the terminal as they do not allow sufficient quantity of liquid through security screening. Also, I do not trust the "tap" water on airplanes, drink only the bottled water...

A bottle or sippy cup, pacifier, teething ring, etc to suck on is also a must. During ascent and descent, the cabin pressure will change and as a result, she may get an ear block. These can be painful, but are relieved by negative pressure in the mouth and throat. If it is really bad, you can try to yawn with her looking at you, the yawn reflex is strong and it often results in equalizing the pressure (ever yawn after watching someone else yawn? or did you just yawn because you've read this?). You can also try gently massaging her forehead, neck, and around her ears if it doesn't clear.

I've flown so many sick kids, I'm pretty good at recognizing the "ear block" before it really becomes an issue; and it during the early onset that it is easiest to treat. Look for her becoming fidgety, reaching for her ear, changes in breathing patterns, etc. Even slight, subtle clues would be enough to try the "yawn reflex", or give her a sippy cup, bottle, etc. The combination of yawning and sucking give enough negative pressure to the ear canals to prevent a true ear block from developing.

If it does develop, it can last for days, so be vigilant here.

Before you go to the airport, check her carseat and make sure there is a sticker on the side attesting to the fact the carseat is certified for air travel. Most are, but not all.

Toys and distractions are also requirements. Nothing big or fancy, just something that might occupy her for twenty or thirty minutes.

Coloring books, toys that beep or vibrate, Be creative, but you don't have to go too crazy either. You can even go so far as setting a small budget for her and letting her pick something out at the airport shop; but remember not to give it to her until you're in the airplane.

Finally, see if you can get a bulkhead row seat. This will give you the opportunity to let her play on the floor area without being able to get away. Just put a blanket down and some toys, and she will have her own play area.

I hope this helps! I'm a flight paramedic and have transported many children. I am also a frequent traveler, including many international destinations. I speak from both a professional medical provider and a frequent flyer. I've seen dozens upon dozens of parents travel with small children, and with a few simple steps, it can be easy and enjoyable for all.

Cheers!

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Disney World, Down town Disney?

motherhood

I will be traveling to disney world in a few months with my young toddler who is 1. any advice as to what we should do for her age group? We already chose the to parks we are going to visit: Magic Kingdom and Epcot Center. I believe there are more to do at those parks for her age group. We are also doing a character lunch at each park. What do you think is available for her age group in down town Disney? Any other advice on Disney world, Down town disney would be great! Also what would you also recommend doing around the Orlando area for her age group as well? thanks!

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Downtown Disney mainly a shopping area. There are a few toy stores and smaller rides, 'more for the something to do while mom shops' type of rides. Disney MGM has a play area for smaller children as well as the Muppet 3D show, she will love that. Sea World is great for younger children. She can get up close to many animals and the shows are great. Have a great time on your vacation. You will have as much fun as your toddler.

Travel toys for a 2 year old boy?

chelexhay

We'll be in the car for about 10 hours. Any suggestions on how to keep him happy? Thanks

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here's what we do. Try to leave in the evening if you can and drive an hour or so before betime then a few after he is asleep. Stop at a McDonalds with a playplace for dinner. I know its dirty but just keep some antibacterial with you. Then let him eat his happy meal in the car later. That'll buy you some more time. I dont have a dvd player but want one for our next 12 hour ride. He usually gets a lot of juice/milk and snacks. Clipboard with paper and crayons. Magnadoodle. Tickle game with mommy from the front passenger seat. and peakaboo between the headrest. his favorite books. A CD of disney music he likes to sing to. a couple of small new toys that he will like because they are new. We bring his play cell phone too.

Also, and this is so important...try talking to him for a little while each day a few days before the trip about how long you'll be in the car. Say where you're going and that you wont stop a lot and he'll have to sit down. Tell him he may have to go nite-nite in the car or take a nap in the car. My son was 18 months when i moved from va to ny with a car-full of stuff and only me and him. I told him daddy was coming home (from iraq) and we're gonna go live with him now and he had to sit and we were gonna be in the car for a long time. HE WAS PERFECT! Then we got there and i told him it was done and he freaked out when i put him in the car to go pick up a pizza. They understand so thats a first step to happiness. And when all else fails, try sugar free lollipops and sippy cups to keep the mouth busy. Good luck.

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Will I manage to travel by plane overseas - pregnant w/h toddler? What's ur advice?

Q. I shall be 20 weeks pregnant at the begining of the trip, 24-26 while returning (not sure how long I shall stay at my destination).

The one way - travel will take us 4 hrs, then 4 hrs waiting, then 2 hrs flight.

I have never traveled pregnant before, what's more - pregnant and taking care of a rather vivid 15 months toddler.

I would appreciate as much advices as possible. Thank you.

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I have been flying internationally when I pregnant the last two times, and with my children since they were each 2 months (now 7 & 5), and I am going to be traveling internationally this summer with my children and I am pregnant (will leave when I am 14 weeks, come back when I'm 30 weeks).

First off, Airline regulations state:

Obstetrical patients are free to fly, but pose a significant risk in later stages of precipitating delivery during flight. Pregnancy past 32 weeks should be carefully considered for restriction from flight and must be accompanied with an authorization note from a doctor. Those past 36 weeks should be prohibited from flying unless personally accompanied by their doctor. (Taken from my husbands flight security and survival manual & FAA site) http://www.faa.gov/other_visit/aviation_industry/designees_delegations/designee_types/ame/media/Section%20II.7.1%20Transportation%20of%20Patients%20by%20Airline.doc

Please note that while FAA regulations do not prohibit flying while pregnant, and even if you bring a doctors note, the final decision is entirely up to the Captain (who will be informed by the gate crew of your status).

While traveling I advise you to keep your medical records, and the name and number of your doctor. You should also get the name and number of a doctor where you will be staying/visiting in case an emergency comes up.

To keep yourself safe and comfortable on the trip, follow these simple things:
*drink plenty of water
*avoid caffeine
*don't eat food that causes gas for at least one day before you travel (pressure builds up as you ascend through the altitudes and could cause pain)
*walk around as much as you can (up and down the aisles)
*stretch while sitting
*wear loose fitting clothing
*wear slip on shoes (your feet may swell)
*wear maternity support pantyhose or socks
*try to get an aisle seat or a front row seat for more leg room
*eat light foods
*eat small meals or snacks at frequent intervals
*do not eat salt
*ask for a seat belt extender and wear it just under your abdomen
*try to relax

Now, as for your 15 moth old:

1.)I highly advise that you buy your child a seat, and use a CRS (Child Restraint System) because it is safe for the child, makes them feel secure, is more comfortable for both parent and child, and gives you the opportunity to relax a bit -something that you will definitely need now because you are pregnant. It will also help to keep your child from kicking and crawling all over your belly and hurting you or your unborn baby.

A CRS is an airline-approved alternative to using a hard-backed seat and is approved for use on aircraft and for use in motor vehicles. Many people confuse it with a regular car seat, which it is not.
http://faa.custhelp.com/cgi-bin/faa.cfg/php/enduser/std_adp.php?p_faqid=29&p_created=1071174367&p_sid=mn66D6wi&p_lva=&p_sp=cF9zcmNoPTEmcF9zb3J0X2J5PSZwX2dyaWRzb3J0PSZwX3Jvd19jbnQ9NCZwX3Byb2RzPSZwX2NhdHM9MCZwX3B2PSZwX2N2PSZwX3BhZ2U9MSZwX3NlYXJjaF90ZXh0PWNoaWxk&p_li=&p_topview=1

This website talks about approved CRS devices and their ratings: http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov/CPS/CSSRating/Index.cfm

Many airlines offer half-price tickets so parents can be guaranteed that their child can travel in a CRS device. Parents should call their airline to ask for a discount and/or ask what the airline's policy is for using empty seats.

Ask your airline if they can provide a CRS for your child. If so, you may not be permitted to bring your own CRS on board, and may need to check it as baggage.
http://www.faa.gov/passengers/fly_children/crs/


2.) For take-offs and landings, the best thing you can do is if your child is still nursing, make sure to nurse him. If he is not nursing, give him a bottle to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter) or a pacifier.

Baby formula is fine to take with you, and you are not limited to the amount you can bring aboard with you, do not worry.
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

New regulations allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz, OR beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food onto the plane with you. http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the stewards/stewardess' will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

Another trick is that if your child is not taking to the pacifier or wanting to drink, gently rub his neck from the chin down to the chest several times - this will cause a swallowing motion which will help with the ears popping.


3.) Make sure to pack plenty of things to entertain your child. A few of his favorite toys, books, a portable DVD player and one or two movies if you have one, and any comfort things such as a blankie. The Fa's will also provide you with a toy or coloring book for your child also.

4.)Take your child to the store and buy him a small carry-on bag. Pick out a few new (but inexpensive) toys that will be used only once he is on the plane.

5.) Pack a few instant hot/cold cereals, instant rice, and other just-add-water packets (age appropriate, of course). The stewards/stewardess' will provide you with hot or cold water upon request. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food and a few other non-perishable snack items. Drinks will be provided free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request.


6.) Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case he gets sick, spills something on himself, or in case your luggage gets lost. Also bring any medications that you might need for him should he get sick. Do NOT give your son medicine with the hopes of it making him sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well.

7.) While in the airport, try to walk around and let you child roam throughout the little shops. You might even consider buying him a new book or small toy that will occupy him and help to pass the time.

8.) Last but not least, if help is offered to you, take it.


I hope you have a safe (and uneventful) trip. If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me

international traveling with toddler...?

KIWI

we are leaving in a couple weeks with my 13 month old daughter. i am anxious about her resting well (and not frustrating everyone on the planes!). she sleeps perfectly - but only in her bed. she does not nap in the pack-n-play nor in the car! i can manage the sleeplessness when we are in hotels or with friends. however, i am worried about the plane... i have read on the internet all kinds of tips. i am looking for something novel i guess... we tried a tinsy bit of children's benedril tonight - that had the opposite effect on her.... can you say: w-i-r-e-d?

i am a taking fav toys/books away a week before... bringing new ones... have the dvd player... and am wrapping things...

any successful experiences out there?

Answer
I've been flying internationally & domestically with my children since they were each 2 months (now 8,&6,&5 months). At least three trips a year are the children & I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone. We do another 8-10 international and domestic flights a year as a family. I have never had any problems with my children. Here are a few tips and suggestions:

1.) Pack plenty of things to entertain your child: a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (be sure to bring extra batteries) or let her use your laptop (make sure it's fully charged) with a few movies, & one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal. I always bring a small pillow & blanket from home for my children (even now) because I know 100% that they are clean, and my children are accustomed to them.

My children bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with & play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, & my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, & stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!
http://www.megabrands.com/en/products/description.php?product_id=1031&brand_id=36&cat=4&age=
I take the contents of the kit out of the box & place them in something a little travel pack. Here is what my sons looks like:
http://photo.ringo.com/259/259570458O312385888.jpg - outside
http://photo.ringo.com/259/259570434O294017000.jpg - inside

You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, & tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where she has a part in it so she stays interested.

You might also consider going to the store & letting your child (I let my children start this at the age of one) pick out her own carry on bag & a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once you are on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without her seeing so that she has an extra surprise when she opens her carry on.

2.) Bring Snacks! just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. are great. New regulations also allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, yogurt, cheese, puddings, etc. with you also as long as they are in containers less than 3oz (100ml)
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10

As long as your child is with you, you are able to take as much formula (any type), breast milk, regular milk, juice, and/or baby food that you will need for you child for the duration of the time you will spend in the airport and on the flight (as long as it is within reason).And no, you will NOT have to taste any of it.

All that you must do is:
1. Separate the milk from the liquids, gels, and aerosols in your quart-size (1 liter) zip-top bag.
2. Declare you have the items to one of the Security Officers at the security checkpoint.
3. Present these items for additional inspection once reaching the X-ray. These items are subject to additional screening
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

3.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of diapers, wipes, ointments & other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, &pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores & they are wonderful for plane use. One thing I always like to carry with me is hand sanitizer! I always wipe the trays down with that (followed by a baby wipe) & use it for my kids after taking them to the bathroom (even though they wash their hands). I know that airplane bathrooms are not the cleanest, so that is why I try to be vigilant.

Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case She gets sick, spills something on herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.

Bring any medications that you might need for your child should she get sick or that she takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag.
http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm

Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making her sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well. I have also seen where it backfires; a parent gives their child a dose of Benedryl to make them sleep, but instead it gets the child more hyper & the parents get absolutely no rest on the flight (neither does anyone else).

Try to change your childs diaper as close to boarding as possible. This will help to make your child feel fresh & more comfortable for take-off (which could also mean less problems).

4.) Not all children have a problem with the pressure changes in their ears. If yours does however you'll want to know how to help. For take-offs and landings (the WHOLE way up, and starting from the BEGINNING, or TOP of descent), the best ways to alleviate ear pressure are to:

*If she is nursing, nurse her
*Give her something to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter)
*Give her a pacifier to suck on
*Pinch her nostrils shut, have her take a deep breath in through the mouth, then tell her to (gently) blow as if trying to blow her nose
*Place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out, at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears
*Gently but with some pressure, rub her neck repeatedly from the chin to the base of the neck. This will cause a swallowing motion that will relieve pressure build-up in the ears.

5.) If you hold your child a a "lap child", try to book a bulkhead (front) seat where you will have more room, and a bassinet. Bassinets are limited, & not available on every flight. If the bassinet is available (they can only be used in bulkhead seats) it will attach to the front wall for you to put your child in (however you can not use this during taxi, take-offs, landings, or turbulence). This is not the safest way for a child to fly & airlines recommend children under 40lbs to have their own seat with a child safety device.

If you haven't booked a separate seat for your child, be nice on check-in & see if they can "block" the seat next to you. They will then only use it if they absolutely need it, & you get a seat for free!

In order to be certified for use on an airplane, the car seat has to met the Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards. Check the labels on the side of your car restraint for a sticker (words will be printed in red) for verification that your seat is safe for airplane use. Almost all car seats pass this requirement.

There is also a new device that is approved by the FAA for airline use ONLY. It is called CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) and costs $75. It weighs 1 pound, is certified for all phases of flight (taxiing, take off, turbulence & landing), adjusts to fit ALL size airplane seats, & is approved for kids 22â44 lbs.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

If you choose not to use your childs car seat for the plane ride, you will be allowed to gate check it (along with a stroller). It will not count towards your checked luggage. This means that you will need to take it with you to your boarding gate, & one of the handlers will take it from you before you depart, tag it, & put it in a special compartment for you. When you exit the plane, it will be waiting for you at the door as well.

There are many products out there designed to help the traveling family. Here's a product that can attach to most car seats so that you can use it as a stroller & get it through the airport more easily. http://www.gogobabyz.com/products/gogo_kids.html

6.) Before you travel, I suggest preparing your child for what to expect so that she is not caught off guard & scared on the day of travel. You want to make sure that you tell her what is going to happen from the time you get to the airport until the time you arrive at your destination. You don't need to go into any great detail here, but give her something that she will be able to reference when actually traveling. If you are able to, I suggest doing a dry run of the airport. This provides you with an opportunity to explain to her what is going to happen while she can see first hand what it looks like. Here are links that talk about what to expect when flying (also includes information about what to do at the airport) that may help you out a bit:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlxCY2D7gKazfods9sO.hnbty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080524223044AA3cjUR&show=7#profile-info-ssBL3Kakaa
http://jamiehassen79.angelfire.com/plane_travel_basics.html

I wrote a small article about flying with children that goes more in-depth, gives security rules & regulations for the US, EU, UK, & Australia, offers tips & tricks for the travel, etc. http://www.angelfire.com/jamiehassen79/flying_children.html

If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.

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traveling with a 20 month old toddler?

joolsnbump

I am taking my 20 month old daughter on holiday to USA next month and it will be a 7 hour flight from London Heathrow to Boston Logan Airport. Obviously since she is under 2 she will be sitting on my knee the whole time. Does anybody have any ideas on things to keep her occupied for the flight as it is a long time for her to be sat still. Also, we have to be at the airport at 4.30 am so what is the best thing to do? Put her in bed in light clothing and try keep her alseep for the journey to airport or still put her pjs on and get her up as normal?

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Traveling will exhausting enough even w/o baby, so by all means let her sleep through as much of it as possible.

I'm not psychic, but I'll bet I can speak collectively for all passengers on board that they'd prefer sleeping child in comfy P.J.'s to a well dressed crying & fussy child.

When ever she wakes up, you can keep her BZ by pointing out new things around her at airport & while on jet. Show her the light, the air flow nozzle, the window. Describe how you are up in the sky where the birds fly. Lots of new & learning conversation.

Meal service will be another distraction and time to keep her BZ.
Bring favorite books & a new brightly colored book. Read with expression & animation. This may be a bit intrusive to other's ears, but again, much better than crying. After mel & stories, take her for a walk to bathroom. Hold her hand & let this be a slow process. She should be interested in every person she passes. Let her be. It's more exciting for her & walk gives her some activity. If aisle is crowded, pick her up & step back into seat area to let others pass. Do not shorten walk. the purpose is for her activity. Go to bathroom. Show her all the features. Be amazed that water comes from faucet. Let her see toilet flush. Give her a tissue to hold. Proceed back to seat just as slowly. (If you're close to bathroom, make trip to other end of jet & then back to bathroom and seat.)

When returned to seat. Can play, "Where's Mommy's nose? Where's your nose? Touch my ear, touch your ear. Touch something pink. Show me a bunny (if on her PJ's)..." Then feign tired with some yawns. Ask her to help put you to sleep. (Rub Mommy's face. Pat my neck...) Maybe you can get her into one more nap B4 landing. If she fidgets, talk about each person she saw on her "walk." Inform how everyone was quiet. (He was reading his book very quiet. She was playing on her computer very quiet. No one was mad at the lady who was knitting very quietly. You are being very quiet & everybody likes your good behavior...)

Have a doll that she can dress & undress, tie shoe, put barrette in hair. Help her get dolly ready for deplaning.

Other toys without noise as back up.
Keep talking to her while awake. If she fusses to do something not appropriate, explain why it's not a good idea now and quickly distract with what she CAN do. ("No we can not take another walk b/c it's somebody else's turn, but you can help dolly get her new dress on for when we get off of the plane. Where did mommy put her dress?" -- Let her look through travel bag.)

If awake for landing, get her excited to watch & feel things as plane comes down from sky like a bird does, "Let's see how it's different on a plane!" Talk her through it. Talk about things you will get to do when off of the plane. ("We will have to find our luggage. There is a big circle that moves. Will you help mommy find our bags on the moving circle?") Again, step by step. All details. Keeps her expectations up. She'll know what to expect. She may have her own questions that will add to keeping her entertained.
Ask her questions to keep her mind working on solution instead of her restricted movement. ("What was the color of our bags? How many did we bring? Do you think it will be cold when we get off of the plane? What else does dolly need to be ready to go?") Note: She does not need to know answer to the questions. It's all about keeping her mind BZ. Wears you out, but worth it to keep child happy & other passengers comfortable for such a long trip.

I did this ONCE with 10 month old. Even though she could not speak, she could understand words & they seemed to keep her mind BZ. But that was one, mentally exhausting trip for me.

flying with toddlers

jennifer m

has anybody travelled with under 2 child on a lap seat?

Answer
We've done three plane trips, one at 4 months, one at 12 months, and just got back from one at 21 months. They were all relatively short, and they all went really well, but I think after this we're going to have to get her her own seat (I know we're required to at 2 years). The earliest flight was by far the easiest, she just slept the whole way both ways, but they've all gone much easier than I feared.

I think you have to judge based on your kid. If your kid is a very restless one who loves to run around, it can be very difficult, because those plane seats don't give you a lot of room. But if you know your kid will sit with you and read books or watch movies or play with small toys on your lap, you're golden. We tried to schedule our flights for times when our daughter was naturally quieter.

Also make sure you have a bottle or sippy cup with you for your child to drink from during take off and landing, that will help their ears. And then make sure you've packed snacks, and extra changes of clothes and toys. Basically, you end up using your one carry-on item for all of your kid's stuff. We did take a fold-up stroller, and they'll let you gate check that at the plane's side, so it's a little easier getting around the airport.

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My toddler has C Diff?

Afran

My 3 1/2 year old, which has spastic diplegia, has tested positive for C Diff today. I have done a little bit of research on c diff. I am not really for sure how one can contract this from another, other than touching a sufferer's poop. I know that when I worked in a nursing home, any resident that contracted this infection, was put on isolation, and anytime you go into their room, you gown up. My other son's first birthday party is on Saturday, and we were going to have his party at our house. Should we cancel having guests come over, or should we just take precautions? And also, what are some good ways and good cleaners to do to help keep our house disinfected. How long does C diff normally last? Are there any long term affects from c diff? Also, he still has his appetite, and he is not vomiting anymore, he is just having loose stools every 4-6 hours. Thank You, I am just a little confused on how you can catch this from someone. In my son's case, he caught it from antibiotics.

Answer
Two species of bacteria in the Clostridium difficile and Clostridium botulinum family can become deadly if all the right conditions occur.

Clostridium difficile makes its home among bacteria in the colon. Actually, the best estimate by microbiologists say the gut contanins 100 trillion bacteria consisting of 1000 separate species. Outside of medicine, few people know that 75-80% of our immune cells exist in the human gut. Certain antibiotics given for infection of gums works with a deadly double-edge sword. It can kill the dangerous bacteria causing the infection, but the antibiotic can activate billions of the C difficile that overwhelm the immune system and cause death for some.

Here is some current news you may not want to know. Superbugs found in hospitals and ICUs can travel on air currents while the solid fixtures below are sanitized with disinfectants. Some hospitals may use sterlized air from machines are installed on the walls to clean the air of contamination. You should use your own advice if you think you need to wear a surgical mask in your child's room.

I am not a health-care provider, but I would wear disposal gloves and keep all your child's discarted tissue, clothes and sheets in a separate bag or box so you can decide how to clean or dispose of the materials. Occasionally, I spray the air in my bathroom and kitchen with a large can of Lysol. Bleach is so strong that it kills STDs and HIV, so you might wipe or spray doorknobs and toilet handles in the area of your child's bedroom and bathroom.

Good Luck.

Harrald

I need Input on traveling by Air India with 2 year old daughter.?

payal p

Hi, I am traveling through Air India with my 2 year old daughter from Chicago to Mumbai. This is my first time traveling with her and I am little nervous as I heard some bad things about Air India. I want to know if you have traveled Air India with a toddler and what was your experience like? For example was flight crew helpful? Do they provide warmed milk for toddlers? I know their entertainment system is poor, so can I take portable DVD player for my daughter to watch her favorite shows? I search through their website but I could not find any answer. I also tried to call them on their four different numbers but all of them are always engaged. My journey is very close, so please reply
Thank you.

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you should be fine with the portable dvd player. we travel from japan to the states several times a year and we always bring it for him and it works well for us. other tips- bring her favorite toys and some surprises. i always hit the dollar store (or the 100 yen shop!)ãbefore a flight. we also bring medicine just in case. ibuprofin or tylenol can help with ear pain if she is no longer nursing (nursing helps ears during take off and landing). and you may also want to consider benedryl which can be given to help her sleep. (check with your doctor for the dose). as for the flight staff. they may be too busy to give you special attention but that doesnt mean you wont have help. when i travel alone with the kids people always offer to help- the grandmother type who let my son sleep with his feet on her lap-- the helpful dad on a business trip who will help you carry your stuff when you board. ask people for help--- they want to help but may be shy to offer. also bring lots of snacks and dont be shy about asking for whatever you need during the trip so you daughter wont get dehydrated. also bring plenty of extra clothes for her and an extra shirt for you... i remember the time my son vomited right before landing. what a mess! good luck and have a safe trip!!!

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Travel bed for 3-year-old?

wonderwoma

I need a very simple travel bed for occasional indoor overnights. I don't want anything air-filled or that peapod tent thing. I'm just looking for something simple with some padding that folds up compactly. Thans!

Answer
This answer isn't going to help but we use the inflatable ready bed for our son. It's small, just right for him & it's comfortable. I'm not sure what else is out there beyond cribs & play yards besides a regular old sleeping bag (which they do make in toddler sizes so they aren't as large.)

Traveling in an RV with toddlers...good or bad idea?

Stephanie

This June me and my husband will be going to MN from TN to visit his family. Once there he wants to join his parents in their RV to go to a few places, problem is we have 14 month twins (by then they will be 16 months) and I'm worried about car seats...will they fit in the RV safely? What about sleeping...right now the only way they will sleep is if they are put in their cribs and fall asleep on their own...I don't think two pack and plays will fit, what is an option?
No, I'm not retarded, I have been traveling with my boys back and forth to MO from TN since they were 3 months old by myself even since my husband has been overseas this past year, so they are used to driving and they do sleep in the car. What I meant about only sleeping in their cribs, that is at night time...if I need to be clearer let me know and please do NOT call me retarded...uncalled for!

Answer
This last weekend I just took my 2 toddlers camping for the first time.We let our oldest who is 3 fall asleep when he wanted...we had a lot of activities that day so he was exhausted and had no problem at all.Just be sure and keep your kids busy.Our 18 month old fell asleep quite easy too.We brought a playpen for him to set up in a big tent we have.It also is beneficial if you bring their favorite blanket or teddy.Hope this helps.Good luck~

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Any tips on travelling with babies/toddlers?

siwso

I will be taking a 5hr flight when my son is 12months and again when he is 15months. What is your experience of flights with kids? What is the best time of day to fly? Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.

Answer
If you're son is a calm baby, you should be ok. If he gets cranky often and screams his head off, you have to be careful. They COULD kick you off the plane! Dr. Phil had a guest on yesterday, that was kicked off a plane before it even took off! Crazy! Just take a bunch of little toys and snacks. Things you KNOW that he likes.
AND, he probably will sleep, if he usually sleeps in the car. My toddlers sleep on our 6hr car ride to Delaware and do really well with it.

international traveling with toddler...?

KIWI

we are leaving in a couple weeks with my 13 month old daughter. i am anxious about her resting well (and not frustrating everyone on the planes!). she sleeps perfectly - but only in her bed. she does not nap in the pack-n-play nor in the car! i can manage the sleeplessness when we are in hotels or with friends. however, i am worried about the plane... i have read on the internet all kinds of tips. i am looking for something novel i guess... we tried a tinsy bit of children's benedril tonight - that had the opposite effect on her.... can you say: w-i-r-e-d?

i am a taking fav toys/books away a week before... bringing new ones... have the dvd player... and am wrapping things...

any successful experiences out there?

Answer
I've been flying internationally & domestically with my children since they were each 2 months (now 8,&6,&5 months). At least three trips a year are the children & I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone. We do another 8-10 international and domestic flights a year as a family. I have never had any problems with my children. Here are a few tips and suggestions:

1.) Pack plenty of things to entertain your child: a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (be sure to bring extra batteries) or let her use your laptop (make sure it's fully charged) with a few movies, & one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal. I always bring a small pillow & blanket from home for my children (even now) because I know 100% that they are clean, and my children are accustomed to them.

My children bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with & play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, & my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, & stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!
http://www.megabrands.com/en/products/description.php?product_id=1031&brand_id=36&cat=4&age=
I take the contents of the kit out of the box & place them in something a little travel pack. Here is what my sons looks like:
http://photo.ringo.com/259/259570458O312385888.jpg - outside
http://photo.ringo.com/259/259570434O294017000.jpg - inside

You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, & tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where she has a part in it so she stays interested.

You might also consider going to the store & letting your child (I let my children start this at the age of one) pick out her own carry on bag & a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once you are on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without her seeing so that she has an extra surprise when she opens her carry on.

2.) Bring Snacks! just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. are great. New regulations also allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, yogurt, cheese, puddings, etc. with you also as long as they are in containers less than 3oz (100ml)
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10

As long as your child is with you, you are able to take as much formula (any type), breast milk, regular milk, juice, and/or baby food that you will need for you child for the duration of the time you will spend in the airport and on the flight (as long as it is within reason).And no, you will NOT have to taste any of it.

All that you must do is:
1. Separate the milk from the liquids, gels, and aerosols in your quart-size (1 liter) zip-top bag.
2. Declare you have the items to one of the Security Officers at the security checkpoint.
3. Present these items for additional inspection once reaching the X-ray. These items are subject to additional screening
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

3.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of diapers, wipes, ointments & other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, &pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores & they are wonderful for plane use. One thing I always like to carry with me is hand sanitizer! I always wipe the trays down with that (followed by a baby wipe) & use it for my kids after taking them to the bathroom (even though they wash their hands). I know that airplane bathrooms are not the cleanest, so that is why I try to be vigilant.

Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case She gets sick, spills something on herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.

Bring any medications that you might need for your child should she get sick or that she takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag.
http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm

Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making her sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well. I have also seen where it backfires; a parent gives their child a dose of Benedryl to make them sleep, but instead it gets the child more hyper & the parents get absolutely no rest on the flight (neither does anyone else).

Try to change your childs diaper as close to boarding as possible. This will help to make your child feel fresh & more comfortable for take-off (which could also mean less problems).

4.) Not all children have a problem with the pressure changes in their ears. If yours does however you'll want to know how to help. For take-offs and landings (the WHOLE way up, and starting from the BEGINNING, or TOP of descent), the best ways to alleviate ear pressure are to:

*If she is nursing, nurse her
*Give her something to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter)
*Give her a pacifier to suck on
*Pinch her nostrils shut, have her take a deep breath in through the mouth, then tell her to (gently) blow as if trying to blow her nose
*Place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out, at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears
*Gently but with some pressure, rub her neck repeatedly from the chin to the base of the neck. This will cause a swallowing motion that will relieve pressure build-up in the ears.

5.) If you hold your child a a "lap child", try to book a bulkhead (front) seat where you will have more room, and a bassinet. Bassinets are limited, & not available on every flight. If the bassinet is available (they can only be used in bulkhead seats) it will attach to the front wall for you to put your child in (however you can not use this during taxi, take-offs, landings, or turbulence). This is not the safest way for a child to fly & airlines recommend children under 40lbs to have their own seat with a child safety device.

If you haven't booked a separate seat for your child, be nice on check-in & see if they can "block" the seat next to you. They will then only use it if they absolutely need it, & you get a seat for free!

In order to be certified for use on an airplane, the car seat has to met the Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards. Check the labels on the side of your car restraint for a sticker (words will be printed in red) for verification that your seat is safe for airplane use. Almost all car seats pass this requirement.

There is also a new device that is approved by the FAA for airline use ONLY. It is called CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) and costs $75. It weighs 1 pound, is certified for all phases of flight (taxiing, take off, turbulence & landing), adjusts to fit ALL size airplane seats, & is approved for kids 22â44 lbs.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

If you choose not to use your childs car seat for the plane ride, you will be allowed to gate check it (along with a stroller). It will not count towards your checked luggage. This means that you will need to take it with you to your boarding gate, & one of the handlers will take it from you before you depart, tag it, & put it in a special compartment for you. When you exit the plane, it will be waiting for you at the door as well.

There are many products out there designed to help the traveling family. Here's a product that can attach to most car seats so that you can use it as a stroller & get it through the airport more easily. http://www.gogobabyz.com/products/gogo_kids.html

6.) Before you travel, I suggest preparing your child for what to expect so that she is not caught off guard & scared on the day of travel. You want to make sure that you tell her what is going to happen from the time you get to the airport until the time you arrive at your destination. You don't need to go into any great detail here, but give her something that she will be able to reference when actually traveling. If you are able to, I suggest doing a dry run of the airport. This provides you with an opportunity to explain to her what is going to happen while she can see first hand what it looks like. Here are links that talk about what to expect when flying (also includes information about what to do at the airport) that may help you out a bit:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlxCY2D7gKazfods9sO.hnbty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080524223044AA3cjUR&show=7#profile-info-ssBL3Kakaa
http://jamiehassen79.angelfire.com/plane_travel_basics.html

I wrote a small article about flying with children that goes more in-depth, gives security rules & regulations for the US, EU, UK, & Australia, offers tips & tricks for the travel, etc. http://www.angelfire.com/jamiehassen79/flying_children.html

If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.

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Help with toddler and traveling?

Amber j

My daughter and I are going to be staying with family for a few weeks or months, and we will most likely be taking a charter bus there. I live in fort wood Missouri., and they live near Austin Texas. The trip would be 17 hours. My daughter is 18 months old, I know I will not be able to hold her the entire trip, are there any tips any one could give to make this trip easier and safer for her? Please don't just say" don't go" I would fly but don't have enough money.

Answer
I would pack up as many new toys as you can. Just dollar store ones. Candy and chocolate come in handy in real tantrum emergencies. Toddlers need to run and move. I would talk to the driver too, he might have some ides he got from other parents, like racing to the bathroom or something. He will also help for safety, and comfort issues. Planes are very understanding of babies, and im sure buses shouldnt be any different. Good Luck!

tips on traveling with a toddler please...?

jupiter

i'm going to travel with my daughter in April, she'll be 19 mo and i'll be 6months pregnant.. there will be just the two of us, and i'm sort of nervous since it'll be a relatively long flight (about 8.5 hours)
i can just picture my daughter wanting to go and talk to EVERYONE on the plane as if she's known them for years!!!
any tips on how i can keep her entertained for that long or just tips on traveling with a toddler will be greatly appreciated...

thanks

Answer
Wow! 8 hours! That sounds hard I know how you feel. The best tips I can give are:
* Snacks (goldfish, crackers, raisins)
* Crayons and Coloring books and paper
* Play-doh (Usually keeps them busy for about an hour or so)
* Regular toys (Dolls, Barbie, stuffed animals)
* Games or Puzzles
* Movie, If there isn't an on board movie a mini dvd player (about 70.00 at Wal-mart)
* Picture books or Regular books ( Some kids love looking at their baby books)
* A new toy! Something they have been wanting for a long time, so there is some of that new feeling. I go to the dollar store and get a whole bunch of junk. Then we hide it under the seats, between and under luggage, and we do a pretend
"treasure hunt" So there is always something new to play with or find and I've only spent 20 dollars or so.
* Sing songs ( Obviously, not to loud)
That's about all I can think of. Normally, I try to get my kids special snacks and silly toys or games from the dollar store. So if we lose something it isn't a huge deal and I can keep switching things every 15minutes. Have a great trip!

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international traveling with toddler...?

KIWI

we are leaving in a couple weeks with my 13 month old daughter. i am anxious about her resting well (and not frustrating everyone on the planes!). she sleeps perfectly - but only in her bed. she does not nap in the pack-n-play nor in the car! i can manage the sleeplessness when we are in hotels or with friends. however, i am worried about the plane... i have read on the internet all kinds of tips. i am looking for something novel i guess... we tried a tinsy bit of children's benedril tonight - that had the opposite effect on her.... can you say: w-i-r-e-d?

i am a taking fav toys/books away a week before... bringing new ones... have the dvd player... and am wrapping things...

any successful experiences out there?

Answer
I've been flying internationally & domestically with my children since they were each 2 months (now 8,&6,&5 months). At least three trips a year are the children & I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone. We do another 8-10 international and domestic flights a year as a family. I have never had any problems with my children. Here are a few tips and suggestions:

1.) Pack plenty of things to entertain your child: a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (be sure to bring extra batteries) or let her use your laptop (make sure it's fully charged) with a few movies, & one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal. I always bring a small pillow & blanket from home for my children (even now) because I know 100% that they are clean, and my children are accustomed to them.

My children bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with & play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, & my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, & stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!
http://www.megabrands.com/en/products/description.php?product_id=1031&brand_id=36&cat=4&age=
I take the contents of the kit out of the box & place them in something a little travel pack. Here is what my sons looks like:
http://photo.ringo.com/259/259570458O312385888.jpg - outside
http://photo.ringo.com/259/259570434O294017000.jpg - inside

You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, & tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where she has a part in it so she stays interested.

You might also consider going to the store & letting your child (I let my children start this at the age of one) pick out her own carry on bag & a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once you are on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without her seeing so that she has an extra surprise when she opens her carry on.

2.) Bring Snacks! just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. are great. New regulations also allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, yogurt, cheese, puddings, etc. with you also as long as they are in containers less than 3oz (100ml)
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10

As long as your child is with you, you are able to take as much formula (any type), breast milk, regular milk, juice, and/or baby food that you will need for you child for the duration of the time you will spend in the airport and on the flight (as long as it is within reason).And no, you will NOT have to taste any of it.

All that you must do is:
1. Separate the milk from the liquids, gels, and aerosols in your quart-size (1 liter) zip-top bag.
2. Declare you have the items to one of the Security Officers at the security checkpoint.
3. Present these items for additional inspection once reaching the X-ray. These items are subject to additional screening
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

3.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of diapers, wipes, ointments & other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, &pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores & they are wonderful for plane use. One thing I always like to carry with me is hand sanitizer! I always wipe the trays down with that (followed by a baby wipe) & use it for my kids after taking them to the bathroom (even though they wash their hands). I know that airplane bathrooms are not the cleanest, so that is why I try to be vigilant.

Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case She gets sick, spills something on herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.

Bring any medications that you might need for your child should she get sick or that she takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag.
http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm

Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making her sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well. I have also seen where it backfires; a parent gives their child a dose of Benedryl to make them sleep, but instead it gets the child more hyper & the parents get absolutely no rest on the flight (neither does anyone else).

Try to change your childs diaper as close to boarding as possible. This will help to make your child feel fresh & more comfortable for take-off (which could also mean less problems).

4.) Not all children have a problem with the pressure changes in their ears. If yours does however you'll want to know how to help. For take-offs and landings (the WHOLE way up, and starting from the BEGINNING, or TOP of descent), the best ways to alleviate ear pressure are to:

*If she is nursing, nurse her
*Give her something to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter)
*Give her a pacifier to suck on
*Pinch her nostrils shut, have her take a deep breath in through the mouth, then tell her to (gently) blow as if trying to blow her nose
*Place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out, at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears
*Gently but with some pressure, rub her neck repeatedly from the chin to the base of the neck. This will cause a swallowing motion that will relieve pressure build-up in the ears.

5.) If you hold your child a a "lap child", try to book a bulkhead (front) seat where you will have more room, and a bassinet. Bassinets are limited, & not available on every flight. If the bassinet is available (they can only be used in bulkhead seats) it will attach to the front wall for you to put your child in (however you can not use this during taxi, take-offs, landings, or turbulence). This is not the safest way for a child to fly & airlines recommend children under 40lbs to have their own seat with a child safety device.

If you haven't booked a separate seat for your child, be nice on check-in & see if they can "block" the seat next to you. They will then only use it if they absolutely need it, & you get a seat for free!

In order to be certified for use on an airplane, the car seat has to met the Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards. Check the labels on the side of your car restraint for a sticker (words will be printed in red) for verification that your seat is safe for airplane use. Almost all car seats pass this requirement.

There is also a new device that is approved by the FAA for airline use ONLY. It is called CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) and costs $75. It weighs 1 pound, is certified for all phases of flight (taxiing, take off, turbulence & landing), adjusts to fit ALL size airplane seats, & is approved for kids 22â44 lbs.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/

If you choose not to use your childs car seat for the plane ride, you will be allowed to gate check it (along with a stroller). It will not count towards your checked luggage. This means that you will need to take it with you to your boarding gate, & one of the handlers will take it from you before you depart, tag it, & put it in a special compartment for you. When you exit the plane, it will be waiting for you at the door as well.

There are many products out there designed to help the traveling family. Here's a product that can attach to most car seats so that you can use it as a stroller & get it through the airport more easily. http://www.gogobabyz.com/products/gogo_kids.html

6.) Before you travel, I suggest preparing your child for what to expect so that she is not caught off guard & scared on the day of travel. You want to make sure that you tell her what is going to happen from the time you get to the airport until the time you arrive at your destination. You don't need to go into any great detail here, but give her something that she will be able to reference when actually traveling. If you are able to, I suggest doing a dry run of the airport. This provides you with an opportunity to explain to her what is going to happen while she can see first hand what it looks like. Here are links that talk about what to expect when flying (also includes information about what to do at the airport) that may help you out a bit:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlxCY2D7gKazfods9sO.hnbty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080524223044AA3cjUR&show=7#profile-info-ssBL3Kakaa
http://jamiehassen79.angelfire.com/plane_travel_basics.html

I wrote a small article about flying with children that goes more in-depth, gives security rules & regulations for the US, EU, UK, & Australia, offers tips & tricks for the travel, etc. http://www.angelfire.com/jamiehassen79/flying_children.html

If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.

Traveling with a toddler?

cece

So in about two months I will be flying with my 18 month old from Massachusetts to Texas. The flight is a little over three hours. My toddler is very wriggly and hasn't even been in a car for longer than two hours (in which she got fussy towards the end). Im traveling by myself with her and I'm just a little nervous that she's gonna freak out on the plane. I have pretty bad anxiety and claustrophobia so the thought of being inclosed on a plane with my screaming child all by myself sounds incredibly overwhelming. anyone flown with their toddler and have any good tips? Did your toddlers cry?

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Traveling with a toddler can be stressful but in my experience it goes better than you might think. Try and make sure your toddler has a nap before the flight if possible. During the flight, make sure you change things up so your toddler doesn't get bored. Play for 20 minutes, then walk him down the aisle to the bathroom and back. Have a snack. Then go for another short walk. My toddler could stand in front of the chairs so she doesn't have to sit all the time - as long as the seatbelt sign isn't on.

Here are some items to bring on the plane: stickers, small toys that aren't choking hazards, notepad and crayons, lots and lots of NEW snacks that you can bring out one at a time, your iPhone or Ipad if you have one, or other electronic device. You can also use the plane TV if your plane has individual screens. Just alternate things and if he cries, walk her up and down the plane. To help with ear pain, bring chewy snacks to help pop the ears.

It is tough but they are all strangers that you'll never see again. Do your best and you'll be ok.

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can anyone think of anything else i need to travel abroad with my 9month old son?

jmdsmammy0

i have clothes, 50+ sunscreen, uv swimwear, baby shampoos etc,nappies, toys,& toys for plane, calpol, teething stuff, swim safety,wipes, sudocrem,rusks, beakers for drinks towels,shoes,sandals,coats,incase weather is not what expected,money, he is breastfed so dont need formula, is there anything else i need that anyone can think off?
oh yeah he wont suffer to eat baby foods he eats whatever i eat but i no abroad food can be dodgy so will have to try and buy something local to suit him! n he has a passport forgot to say, thanks alot jessica gud help and please do if u think more x

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Babies tend to get diarrhea in different climates, so maybe something like dyorilyte (don't know how to spell it) Its a liquid medicine for diarrhea. Or you can get it in sachets, and mix it with water
Large blanket to put on sand, grass, hard surfaces etc (also you could nab one of hotels blankets for duration of holiday!!)
Also, I know its hard, but bottles of your own water!! When I went away I bought lots of bottled water, and the change in water (even though I boiled it) upset my daughters tummy
UV sunscreen for pushchair, or very thin blanket to drape over baby?
urm... will add more if i can think of more! lol

What all does a new mom need?

ardie bond

When you become a first time mommy what all do you need to buy?

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think of all the things you need :bedding,clothes,food,entertainment,
comfort,travel,bathroom and socialisation,then it will be easier to make a list

Bedding-bed,sheets
Clothes-indoor,outdoor,bedtime
Food-bottles,bottle steriliser,milk powder (if not breast feeding), breast pump (if you are breast feeding the breast pump will give you a break when its the partners turn to feed the baby)
Entertainment-toys,music (for bedtime-naptime)
Comfort-soothers,bouncy chair, Hugs and Kisses
Travel-pushchair,car seat,mummy bag (to carry bottles,nappies,baby wipes,spare clothes)
Bathroom-baby bath,bubble bath,baby lotion,baby powder,nappies,towels,bath toys,baby wipes
Socialisation-family,friends

Also make sure you take naps when there napping, you will need as much sleep as you can get and if anyone offers to take baby for a walk, accept you will need some me time..

Hope my list helps xD

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Traveling with 1 year old, entertainment?

New Mommy!

I was hoping some of you can give me ideas on how to entertain my 1 year old on a plane.

Our flight is at 7 am and is 3 hours long. This is a looong time for a 1 year old to sit still. What should I pack for him to keep him entertained? Also, what helps with the ears, I know for a little baby feeding them at take off and landing helps ease discomfort?

Thanks in advance!

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Buy new toys and don't let him see then until after you see him start getting aggitated on the plane. Save them until the last possible second lol. Luckily, its only 3 hours and will go by quickly. And light snacks he can munch on. I brought toy cars for my son and it was a 6 hour flight he did very well. Just make sure the toys are new to him.

What's the best way to travel on an airplane with my 1 year old?

Laura

How do you keep such a busy person happy when they can't move around??

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I've been flying internationally with my children since they were 2 months (now 7&5), and here are some tips and advice that have always worked for me:

1.) I advise using a CRS (Child Restraint System) because it is safe for the child, makes them feel secure, is more comfortable for both parent and child, and gives you the opportunity to relax a bit.

A CRS is an airline-approved alternative to using a hard-backed seat and is approved for use on aircraft and for use in motor vehicles. Many people confuse it with a regular car seat, which it is not.
http://faa.custhelp.com/cgi-bin/faa.cfg/php/enduser/std_adp.php?p_faqid=29&p_created=1071174367&p_sid=mn66D6wi&p_lva=&p_sp=cF9zcmNoPTEmcF9zb3J0X2J5PSZwX2dyaWRzb3J0PSZwX3Jvd19jbnQ9NCZwX3Byb2RzPSZwX2NhdHM9MCZwX3B2PSZwX2N2PSZwX3BhZ2U9MSZwX3NlYXJjaF90ZXh0PWNoaWxk&p_li=&p_topview=1

This website talks about approved CRS devices and their ratings: http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov/CPS/CSSRating/Index.cfm

Many airlines offer half-price tickets so parents can be guaranteed that their child can travel in a CRS device. Parents should call their airline to ask for a discount and/or ask what the airline's policy is for using empty seats.

Ask your airline if they can provide a CRS for your child. If so, you may not be permitted to bring your own CRS on board, and may need to check it as baggage.
http://www.faa.gov/passengers/fly_children/crs/

2.) The best time of day to fly is whenever you are comfortable. If you can find a flight that will take off around your child's nap or bedtime, that would be easier, but of course we all know it doesn't always work out that way. The main thing is that you pick a day that you are comfortable with and try to be as relaxed as possible because your son will be able to pick up on any anxiousness or anxiety you might have.

3.) For take-offs and landings, the best thing you can do is if your child is still nursing, make sure to nurse him. If he is not nursing, give him a bottle to drink (milk, water, juice - it doesn't matter) or a pacifier.

Baby formula is fine to take with you, and you are not limited to the amount you can bring aboard with you, do not worry.
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/children/formula.shtm

New regulations allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz, OR beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food onto the plane with you. http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10

Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the stewards/stewardess' will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.

Another trick is that if your child is not taking to the pacifier or wanting to drink, gently rub his neck from the chin down to the chest several times - this will cause a swallowing motion which will help with the ears popping.


4.) Make sure to pack plenty of things to entertain your child. A few of his favorite toys, books, and any comfort things such as a blankie. The Fa's will also provide you with a toy or coloring book for your son also.

5.)Take your child to the store and buy him a small carry-on bag. Pick out a few new (but inexpensive) toys that will be used only once he is on the plane.

6.) Pack a few instant hot/cold cereals, instant rice, and other just-add-water packets (age appropriate, of course). The stewards/stewardess' will provide you with hot or cold water upon request. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food and a few other non-perishable snack items. Drinks will be provided free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request.


7.) Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case he gets sick, spills something on himself, or in case your luggage gets lost. Also bring any medications that you might need for him should he get sick. Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making him sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well.

8.) Last but not least, if help is offered to you, take it.


I hope you have a great trip, and if I can be of any more assistance, please feel free to contact me

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traveling with a 6 month old?

yourbigsis

My husband and I are planning a trip from Maryland to Illinois in May when my child will be 6 months. We would like to drive. it should take 10 hours non stop. We do plan on stoppin mind you... LOL so I know it will take longer. We want to leave in the night so that she will be sleeping most of the way. What I want to know is does anyone have any suggestions for making our trip easier?
We are staying in a hotel for three nights. So any suggestions on how to get her comfy there would be nice as well. She has only stayed outside of my home once and it was a nightmare. She didn't sleep at all.
BTW: my husband works third shift, so we are used to him working while I take care of baby... We plan on him driving while I do my magic and then when we get there, he will sleep for a few hours before seeing his family. And she will still be rear-facing so the DVD is out of question...

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I live in TX and my family lives in Fl we travel about six times a year. It is a 12hr trip. I would definately reccomend traveling while the baby is sleeping. It makes the trip so much easier. I also sit in the back by the baby, so I can talk to her and give her toys to play with. IF the baby has a favorite blanket or toy make sure to have it handy. Have the babyfood at room temp and all ready to go. If you formula feed you can purchase a plug in bottle warmer. I breastfeed, so we would just have to stop so I could feed the baby. Good Luck!

tips for plane travel with a 7mth old?

mama

is there anything you can't take on a plane babywise?
does baby spend the entire flight on your lap?

I'm a first time mummy who has only been on short trips a few times many years ago - and never with a baby! i'm very, very nervous!!

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The first time we traveled with my daughter she was 6 months old. So i brought a couple of things alone. They gave us a seat to put the car seat in so we could take her out but she spent most of the time sleeping.

As bad as it sounds we tried to pretty much wear her out before getting on the plane. I brought a bottle filled with formula and her favorite toy and my nursing blanket. We had a four and a half hour flight she fell asleep before getting on and woke up in the beginning. I tried to bottle feed but she didn't take so sadly I nursed her in the airplane bathroom. She slept for the remainder basically only waking up in the end but we played with her toys.

It was hard but we did pretty good. Best Wishes!

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Jealous Toddler?

Q. We have a 2 year old boy and a 13 year old girl living with us.

In 2 days, we are going to Italy, to get our 2 year old daughter, that we are adopting.

The 2 year old boy is jealous.

I think because she is getting a lot of stuff.

We are buying her a bunch of toys and everything for her carry-on.

Should we buy him some new stuff?

We travel a lot and we have the money to buy it for him.

-Bella's Mom (I am using my daughter's YA name)

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I would say yes, buy him a gift! And it is normal for him to be jelous because he knows that he is your 'baby' and now he has competeion! so be sure to give the new little girl attention, but dont forget him! Make him feel special, and tell him what a big boy he is and he will be the 'big brother' it is ok to exagerate!
good luck! if you need any more help let me know!
cupcakecoutureprincess@yahoo.com

Traveling to Europe with Active and Fussy toddler? AND ADVICE PLEASE!?

Tracy B

My husband and I are going to Europe to visit his family for a month in Romania. We are bringing our 13mo old son. He is overall a good boy but is teething right now and has moments of fussiness for no reason. The flight leaves at 5:00. He usually naps during the day between 1 and 3:30 or 12 and 3. So one problem already arising will be we will have to be to the airport 2-3 hours in advance of 5:00 which means we would have to leave during his nap time. I bought the tickets 6 months ago when his nap schedule was different but prices were best. Other then this he is usually okay until around 7 when he gets cranky, he recently dropped his 7-8:00 nap so he will more then likely be up for that too on the plane. People have told me to bring our portable dvd player but he wont wear the headset =( he pulls it off. He loves to snack so I plan on bringing lots of things for him to chew on. The flight initially is 9 hours nonstop to Germany where we will arrive (Our time) around 2:00 in the morning. Then we have a 55 min layover until the final flight to Bucharest which leave around 3:30am (Our time) we live on the East coast. ET. We then have the final 2 hour flight to Bucharest, we will arrive between 5:00-6:00 am our time. So basically I know it's gonna be a rough flight for all of us. I doubt I will get any sleep because our son stays up till 11-12 at night at home, he is VERY active. I have heard to try Benadryl but I am nervous about that, I am considering it but still not sure. Any tips about this trip that could help? Should I bring a pillow or will the airline have them (Lufthansa). Can I bring juice or water for him? He loves vitamin water. What toys could I bring that will distract him but not drive the other people around us crazy with noise and have a bunch of pieces? He also HATES being restrained, will I have to buckle him in my lap during take off? Also I am still breastfeeding him, can I breastfeed him during take off to help calm him down? Sorry this is so long I am just so nervous!

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Make a goodie bag to the other passengers with candy, earplugs, jigsaw puzzles etc, silly little things, magazines (can find cheap secondhand). It will be appreciated.

For him you have his toys, toothbrush (worked wonders on my kids when teething), books, a bottle he can drink from when taking off and landing so his ears wont hurt, crayons, a pillow, a blanket he can sit on on the floor because you will be put at the Emergency exit since they usually put kids there because of the legroom and he can sleep on the floor. Ask them about that. The juice and water depends on the rules these days but on how much you are allowed to bring on a plane. And yes, he will be sitting in your lap for takeoff. Breastfeeding is great.

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Studying abroad with a toddler?

sarah

Im 18, just graduated high school and am continuing my education. I wanted to get some information on studying abroad. What courses or topics of carreers in interest normally offer this oppurtunity and what does it consist of? Just any general info will be very helpful. I also have a 2 year old daughter, I just won a custody case against her father (sparing the details) so he now has only standard visitation at a specific location, how would I go about taking her with me? Rules? Laws? how do you think this would go over in court?

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You can study ANYTHING abroad that you study in the US. If you want to study abroad as part of your college education, that depends on the relationship your school has with foreign universities.

Standard visitation at a specific location would require that he have reasonable access to this specific location. Travel out of the country would not be considered reasonable access. A law has been in place for a dozen years that you cannot even get a passport for a child without consent of both parents. You would definitely need to get court approval to live with her outside the country.

I am not a lawyer but my opinion is that a court would look at if you are obligated, by whatever degree you plan on obtaining, to study abroad. The only thing I see mitigating in in your favor is that, despite contesting custody, the father has no interest in parenting and you can show he doesn't make use of the visitation he has. Even then it would be difficult and you might want to consult an attorney to discuss strategies.

Is there a company that rents infant/toddler car seats that covers Doylestown, PA?

dawniep

We are travelling to Doylestown, PA and need an infant and toddler car seat. I have checked and so far companies don't cover this location or charge extra fees for distance (babies away, going 2 grammy's). help!

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Your infant and toddler can both ride in Cosco Sceneras- The Scenera is a convertible car seats which means you can use them both rear facing and forward facing. The Scenera may need a rolled up towel to increase recline for your infant (newborns need the 45 degree angle to keep their airway open). It costs around $40 and the Scenera is available only at Walmart.

Have you heard about the new AAP recommendations? The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that children ride rear facing until they are at least 2 years old because studies have shown that rear facing kids are 500% safer than forward facing kids. This video shows why rear facing to at least age 2 is important: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8gU9zzCGA8

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