Dominique
We're looking to embark on our next grand adventure, the first of it's kind for us with a toddler. Our daughter is definitely a pioneer and a trooper, so we'd like to try something exotic, and packed with rich cultural and historical flavor. We definitely enjoy the off-the-beaten track kinds of trips but know that we'll be limited by our daughter's stamina and would like her to enjoy it as much (if in different ways!) as we do. We're considering India, but have some concerns about maintaining her health there if she refuses local food or becomes ill. That would be a mild concern just about anywhere though, I suppose- something we will tackle after we choose a destination!
If you could go anywhere in the world, and a toddler might enjoy it, where would you go?
Answer
Fiji!! They love kids here. You can take her snorkelling to see the fish on the reef, our son and daughter who are three and five absolutely love it and/or some islands have glass bottom boats or semi submersibles. Fish feeding, dolphin watching, coconut drinks, learning traditional "Meke" dances, etc. etc. and of course the people are some of the nicest in the world.
Fiji!! They love kids here. You can take her snorkelling to see the fish on the reef, our son and daughter who are three and five absolutely love it and/or some islands have glass bottom boats or semi submersibles. Fish feeding, dolphin watching, coconut drinks, learning traditional "Meke" dances, etc. etc. and of course the people are some of the nicest in the world.
How can I keep a toddler (1yr.) entertained on a 16 hr flight?
Kimmie
Her father will be working overseas in a few months, and I'd really like to go. Chances are, I don't know if I'll be able to get two seats. If the tickets will be over 1000 apeiece, I( wont be able to. Can anyone tell me how to entertain a kid that old on a very long flight, and any advice about flying this long with someone this young. I'm thinking about not even going now because of the circumstances. It is really something I wanted us to do though. Help!
Dear Paul: Hey, I didn't ask what you thought of taking a young child on a plane. Her father is going overseas, we are going with him if it worth the trouble. Maybe you don't have a family and don't understand what it would be like to be missing your daughter's first birthday, major milestones, etc, but we do. So keep the comments to yourself. If it was dangerous for children to fly, they wouldn't allow it. Maybe you're just one of those A$$holes who flies a lot and wants to take an opportunity to make sure ONE child doesn't ruin a flight for someone of your stature. Know what? I don't care? I'll do my best to make the flight as pleasant as possible for everyone, and THAT is why I asked this question. Thanks again.
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I've been flying internationally with my children since they were 2 months (now 7&5). At least three trips a year are the children and I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone, and we do 8-10 other flights (internationally and domestically) as a family each year. Here are some other tips and advise that have always worked for me and I hope will work for you too:
1.) Prepare your child on what to expect. Talk to her about the experience before hand. Tell her about what is going to happen when you get to the airport, when you are on the plane, and when you arrive at your destination.
Here is a link to a question I answered about what to expect on when flying that may help you out a bit:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atjsx.jrCfX2SpzB2QD7ULbty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070912013624AAmWB4o&show=7#profile-info-VXZv6WAsaa
2.) You will need to have all your child's documents in order. It is a good idea to keep a copy of her notarized birth certificate with you. Since it is an international flight, you will need a passport and possibly a visa for your child as well. Verify what travel documents you will need in advance to make sure you have everything.
3.) You can take a stroller and gate check it. This means that you will be able to use it all the way up until the time that you board, and one of the handlers will take it and put it in a special compartment for you. When you exit the plane, it will be waiting for you at the door as well.
Here's a product that can attach to most car seats so that you can use it as a stroller and get it through the airport more easily. http://www.gogobabyz.com/products/gogo_kids.html
4.) Airline regulations currently allow children under the age of two to fly free as "lap children" (not required to have their own seat). International flights usually charge a 10-20% fee for lap children.
The Flight Attendants should place you in a front seat where you will have more room. Depending on the airline and length of flight, the Flight Attendants might give you a bassinet that attaches to the front wall to put your child in (however you can not uses this during taxi, take-offs, landings, or turbulence).
This is not the safest way for a child to fly and the airlines recommend children to have their own seat with a child safety device.
Many airlines offer half-price tickets so parents can be guaranteed that their child can travel in a CRS device. You should call your airline to ask for a discount and/or ask what the airline's policy is for using empty seats.
I advise using a CRS (Child Restraint System) because it is safe for the child - especially during turbulence, makes them feel secure, is more comfortable for both parent and child, will help your child sleep, and gives both of you the opportunity to relax a bit.
A CRS is a hard-backed child or infant safety seat that is approved by the government for use in both motor vehicles and aircraft.
In order to be certified for use on an airplane, the car seat has to met the Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards (most car seats have this). Check the labels on the side of your car restraint for a sticker (words will be printed in red) for verification that your seat is safe for airplane use.
There is also a new device that is approved by the FAA for airline use ONLY. It is called CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) and costs $75. It weighs 1 pound, is certified for all phases of flight (taxiing, take off, turbulence and landing), adjusts to fit ALL size airplane seats, and is approved for kids 22â44 lbs.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/
5.) For take-offs and landings, the best thing you can do to help with the ear popping, is give your daughter a bottle or something to drink (milk, water, juice- it doesn't matter) or a pacifier.
New regulations allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. with you also.
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10
Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.
Another trick is that if your child is not taking to the pacifier or wanting to drink, gently rub her neck from the chin down to the chest several times - this will cause a swallowing motion which will help with the ears popping.
You can also place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears to help with the ear popping.
6.) Make sure to pack plenty of things to entertain your child, such as a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (or a laptop) with a few movies, and one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal.
My children like to bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), and scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with and play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, and my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit from Target (about $5 for the small one and $10 for the large one) is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, and stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!
You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, and tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where your child has a part in it so she stays interested. This is also a good time to explain things that are happening or going to happen on the plane, and ask questions, such as what do you think the weather is going to be like when we land? etc.
You might also consider going to the store and letting your child pick out her own carry on bag and a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without her seeing so that she has an extra surprise when she opens her carry on.
Don't be afraid to get up and walk the aisles with your child. This will help to break up the length of the flight and let her stretch her muscles. In fact, this is good for all of you to do.
7.) Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case she gets sick, spills something on herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.
8.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of diapers, wipes, ointments and other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, and such and pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores and they are wonderful for plane use.
You should be respectful of other passengers and always change your child's diaper in the restroom. They do have diaper bed changers in there, although they can be a little small. Usually the bathrooms with the diapers beds are the handicap ones (tend to be at the rear of most planes), so they tend to be a little bit bigger and it does help.
I also know some people who say that instead of using the changing table, they say to put the toilet seat down, use the toilet as a seat for yourself, and lay the baby across your knee to change their diaper.
I personally think the best way to do it (still in the bathroom) is to change their diaper while they are standing up. It may seem odd, but I have actually found that it is an easier way to change diapers for older babies while on a plane!
To make it easier on yourself, make sure that you undress your child so that she has just a diaper on while at your seat. Grab your diaper, wipes, and ointment or baby powder (whatever you use for changing your daughters diaper) and head to the bathroom. This will help to make the procedure faster and easier.
9.) Keep your doctors name and number with you. Also get the name and number of a doctor where you are visiting in case an emergency should come up.
10.) Bring any medications that you might need for your child should she get sick or that she takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag.
http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm
Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making her sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well.
11.) Keep your calm. If you get stressed out, your child can pick up on it and it will make the travel that much harder.
12.) Last but not least, if help is offered to you, take it.
If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.
I've been flying internationally with my children since they were 2 months (now 7&5). At least three trips a year are the children and I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone, and we do 8-10 other flights (internationally and domestically) as a family each year. Here are some other tips and advise that have always worked for me and I hope will work for you too:
1.) Prepare your child on what to expect. Talk to her about the experience before hand. Tell her about what is going to happen when you get to the airport, when you are on the plane, and when you arrive at your destination.
Here is a link to a question I answered about what to expect on when flying that may help you out a bit:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atjsx.jrCfX2SpzB2QD7ULbty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20070912013624AAmWB4o&show=7#profile-info-VXZv6WAsaa
2.) You will need to have all your child's documents in order. It is a good idea to keep a copy of her notarized birth certificate with you. Since it is an international flight, you will need a passport and possibly a visa for your child as well. Verify what travel documents you will need in advance to make sure you have everything.
3.) You can take a stroller and gate check it. This means that you will be able to use it all the way up until the time that you board, and one of the handlers will take it and put it in a special compartment for you. When you exit the plane, it will be waiting for you at the door as well.
Here's a product that can attach to most car seats so that you can use it as a stroller and get it through the airport more easily. http://www.gogobabyz.com/products/gogo_kids.html
4.) Airline regulations currently allow children under the age of two to fly free as "lap children" (not required to have their own seat). International flights usually charge a 10-20% fee for lap children.
The Flight Attendants should place you in a front seat where you will have more room. Depending on the airline and length of flight, the Flight Attendants might give you a bassinet that attaches to the front wall to put your child in (however you can not uses this during taxi, take-offs, landings, or turbulence).
This is not the safest way for a child to fly and the airlines recommend children to have their own seat with a child safety device.
Many airlines offer half-price tickets so parents can be guaranteed that their child can travel in a CRS device. You should call your airline to ask for a discount and/or ask what the airline's policy is for using empty seats.
I advise using a CRS (Child Restraint System) because it is safe for the child - especially during turbulence, makes them feel secure, is more comfortable for both parent and child, will help your child sleep, and gives both of you the opportunity to relax a bit.
A CRS is a hard-backed child or infant safety seat that is approved by the government for use in both motor vehicles and aircraft.
In order to be certified for use on an airplane, the car seat has to met the Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards (most car seats have this). Check the labels on the side of your car restraint for a sticker (words will be printed in red) for verification that your seat is safe for airplane use.
There is also a new device that is approved by the FAA for airline use ONLY. It is called CARES (Child Aviation Restraint System) and costs $75. It weighs 1 pound, is certified for all phases of flight (taxiing, take off, turbulence and landing), adjusts to fit ALL size airplane seats, and is approved for kids 22â44 lbs.
http://www.kidsflysafe.com/
5.) For take-offs and landings, the best thing you can do to help with the ear popping, is give your daughter a bottle or something to drink (milk, water, juice- it doesn't matter) or a pacifier.
New regulations allow you to take beverages (including water) from home as long as they are less than 3oz (100ml), -OR- beverages (including water) of any size that you have purchased from inside the security area onto planes. You can also bring a limited amount of baby food, just add water packets of food, cheerios, goldfish, animal crackers, dried fruit, etc. with you also.
http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm#10
Save your money when it comes to buying water though because the Flight Attendants will provide you with hot or cold water (or any other drink) free at any time that you request, no matter how many times you request it.
Another trick is that if your child is not taking to the pacifier or wanting to drink, gently rub her neck from the chin down to the chest several times - this will cause a swallowing motion which will help with the ears popping.
You can also place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears to help with the ear popping.
6.) Make sure to pack plenty of things to entertain your child, such as a few books, toys, a portable DVD player (or a laptop) with a few movies, and one or two comfort things such as a favorite blankie or stuffed animal.
My children like to bring along their own coloring books, a Doodle Pad, their Leap Pads (with a few booklets), and scrap paper that they can make their own drawings with and play games such as tic-tac-toe. My daughter used to like to bring along a doodle bear when she was younger so that she could draw on that as well, and my son likes to bring along some action figures to play with. I found that buying a Rose Art kit from Target (about $5 for the small one and $10 for the large one) is great! It has crayons, markers, coloring books, coloring sheets, and stickers that they can color. It definitely keeps them entertained!
You can also play games like pat-a-cake, or I-spy, and tell stories to your child as well. If you tell a story, try to make it an interactive one where your child has a part in it so she stays interested. This is also a good time to explain things that are happening or going to happen on the plane, and ask questions, such as what do you think the weather is going to be like when we land? etc.
You might also consider going to the store and letting your child pick out her own carry on bag and a few inexpensive toys that will be used only once on the plane. Be sure to pick out a few toys without her seeing so that she has an extra surprise when she opens her carry on.
Don't be afraid to get up and walk the aisles with your child. This will help to break up the length of the flight and let her stretch her muscles. In fact, this is good for all of you to do.
7.) Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child. You will need this in case she gets sick, spills something on herself, or in case your luggage gets lost.
8.) Keep your diaper bag well stocked with plenty of diapers, wipes, ointments and other essential things. Just remember the new law regulating liquids, gels, and such and pack accordingly. http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm You can usually find travel size baby products in stores and they are wonderful for plane use.
You should be respectful of other passengers and always change your child's diaper in the restroom. They do have diaper bed changers in there, although they can be a little small. Usually the bathrooms with the diapers beds are the handicap ones (tend to be at the rear of most planes), so they tend to be a little bit bigger and it does help.
I also know some people who say that instead of using the changing table, they say to put the toilet seat down, use the toilet as a seat for yourself, and lay the baby across your knee to change their diaper.
I personally think the best way to do it (still in the bathroom) is to change their diaper while they are standing up. It may seem odd, but I have actually found that it is an easier way to change diapers for older babies while on a plane!
To make it easier on yourself, make sure that you undress your child so that she has just a diaper on while at your seat. Grab your diaper, wipes, and ointment or baby powder (whatever you use for changing your daughters diaper) and head to the bathroom. This will help to make the procedure faster and easier.
9.) Keep your doctors name and number with you. Also get the name and number of a doctor where you are visiting in case an emergency should come up.
10.) Bring any medications that you might need for your child should she get sick or that she takes regularly. Remember that if they are not prescription medications, the 3oz (100ml) rule applies to them and they must be kept in a clear plastic bag.
http://www.tsa.gov/311/index.shtm
Do NOT give your child medicine with the hopes of it making her sleep. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well.
11.) Keep your calm. If you get stressed out, your child can pick up on it and it will make the travel that much harder.
12.) Last but not least, if help is offered to you, take it.
If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.
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